My best friend thinks I am jealous of her and her boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

how can I get out of this situation? how can I end the friendship?

[Nephastie]

Ive been in this situation. If you are truly not jealous, its something with her. She may feel guilty about being too exclusive with her boyfriend. maybe she is cutting off family or whatever. Just assure her that you aren't jealous. If she keeps being defensive for no reason, just kinda phase yourself out of her life. Start chillen with other friends. She will either come around or not. You can't bother yourself with other peoples non sense.

[Asker]

thank you that's good advice. yea that's what I'm doing now she's has been ignoring me and is exclusive with her boyfriend and forgot about me and I brought it up and she thinks I'm jealous of her because I'm single and she's not...i don't need that kind of negativity in my life

[WovenEclipse]

You don't need to end the friendship because of that :) but its up to you. Just tell her clearly you do't feel jealous ^_^

[Asker]

i have and she doesn't believe me she's conceited and full of herself and has talked crap about me to friends

[WovenEclipse]

:/ well she sounds mean, hmm... I'd just end the friendship, don't even bother saying anything if she says its because of jealousy, just act like your tired of her going on about it, and she'll stop because she won't have the fun of seeing you react when she accuses you of jealousy :)

[Anonymous]

Tell her you're not jealous of her and you don't think its a good idea to be friends with her anymore.

[Lovelesspassion]

Are you?

Im only asking because you asked "how can I end the friendship?"

Why do you want to end it?

[Asker]

because she doesn't trust me and is conceited

[Lovelesspassion]

You should covince her other wise.. Go out date a diffrent guy..

Dont let her oppion change you.. Your not jellin.. Let her figure it out and you should go live your life

[Asker]

i just told her to stay away from and that I like another guy

[Lovelesspassion]

Then live your life.. Go ask the guy out.. Again don't let her stop your life.. Just because she's throwing her elationship in your face..

Also after I just wrote that it made me think.. Maybe she's been jellious of you.. And now that she's got a great guy.. So She's hoping your jellious of her.. And your not.. So she's upset and trying push you into being jelious.. But that's just a thought

[Asker]

true that does make sense...thank you for your input =]