I hate when my mother touches me?

[sheama_t]

I absolutely hate when my mother touches me. don’t know how I got this way, but I realized how much it bothers me when my mom just touched my eyebrow telling me I needed to get them threaded. It’s always been this way. I don’t hate when my friends touch me, just my mother. She gets upset with me; tells me I’m unloving. Although anytime I touch her it seems so forced and fake. What does this mean?

[Libbers]

That’s strange. Mom mom puts her hand on my shoulder and stuff or sometimes grabs my hand when she is excited and wants to lead me to show me something. But never has she touched my face like that or suggested that. Well not since I was a kid.

[sheama_t]

Well my mom is super critical. So I think maybe this is why I hate her touching me, because I associate it with negative feelings. Because usually when she touched me it was to point out something I needed to fix

[Anonymous]

maybe because your mom never gave you any personal space (mentally and physically)

[Opinion Owner]

also probably because she was commenting on your looks and telling you your eyebrows needed to be threaded. kinda rude.

[Natalaki606]

I can’t stand when my mother touches me because she pushes me away so much. I wish it wasn’t like that, but that is how I feel. It even feels weird to hug her when I first see her after a long time. I feel like she is the one that made it this way!!

[rossbutler]

Have you been sexually assaulted before? I want to talk to you about this

[sheama_t]

No I actually have not. Growing up she used to sometimes smack my butt or do other things but that’s usual family stuff like you would do with siblings or friends.

[rossbutler]

I see love

[chriscdi]

just your mother or anyone in general

[sheama_t]

Just my mother. I don’t mind when my other family or my friends touch me

[chriscdi]

that is pretty odd ill say