Why do I feel so uncomfortable around my mom?

[girlz]

When I come to my mom's house, I feel uncomfortable with her. I think the reason is that she asks so many questions about my life, career or my relationship. Do you ever feel the same?

[Anonymous]

She thinks she still owns you
But you have to remind her that you are a very grown adult now like old too and she can’t really interrogate you anymore. It’s tiring and annoying
I know how you feel my mom is the same. But I don’t talk much either. So it’s up to you too. When she asks qs just reply saying —I don’t know. You don’t have to give exact answers. It’s in your hand.

[Anonymous]

well, when people are invasive about your life it can be uncomfortable

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Parents, siblings, even aunts and uncles will have some sort of opinion on what you should do with your life. An important thing to do is to talk to her about how this is affecting you, explain how uncomfortable it's making you feel. If she won't listen, you may have to cut her out of your life.

[serious]

Maybe you don't like her nature and the way she deals with things. The way she speaks etc could be anything

[Adam1978]

Are you ashamed of your life status? That would be the only reason to be uncomfortable with it.

[najekim]

Mom's being mom. Try telling her that you'll let her know when something "news-worthy" comes up and quit asking the same questions over and over.

[noohair]

I think that your Mom is still parenting. I would not like it either.