I have to choose between going for a month to see my father or 2 weeks to see him and then the guy I like for 2 weeks?

[Anonymous]

im in such a dilemma. This year, I really wanted to visit my dad for a month as he lives abroad. Last year, I was in a different part of my dads country and met a guy I like who I would also love to see. Becuase of quarantining on return to my own country, I have no time to do both. So now I’m unsure of whether to spend just 2 weeks with my dad, fly back to my country and then to see the guy for 2 weeks after quarantining, or spend a month with my dad. What should I do?🥺🥺🥺

[rosemilk]

This shouldn't be a question. At first, your whole plan was to see your dad until this dude came along. Continue to keep your plan with your dad. If not, that's pretty rude to put some dude before your dad. He won't be around forever you know... 🌸

[ChrisMaster69]

What’s the total time spent with your dad over last 12 months.

can your dad visit you at your place?

[Asker]

Spend no time at all with him in the last 12 months, he wouldn’t be able to visit me in my country or at the other part where the guy I like lives. Guy I like could travel to where I am, not sure if he’d want to do that for work reasons though

[ChrisMaster69]

Spend it with your dad.

[Asker]

I think you are right. Thank you!

[ChrisMaster69]

No problem.

As a father, I know i would be missing my daughter after 12 months

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Pretty Pink Anon thank you most appreciated

[jennifer_bloom]

See your dad I think.

[Paris13]

Break up the Time and Trip. xx