My dad told me that he only does nice things for me because he expects me to do things in return for him. For example, he'll only bother himself to make me food because he will expect me to make him food like the next day. I feel like that's messed up and it doesn't sound like unconditional love. On top of it, it makes me not want to accept anything from him because then he'll force me to do things I don't want to do. Am i overreacting? I feel like this is messed up. My dad is 68 by the way.