She moved out because my younger sister boyfriend got our house shot at 3 times. My step brother told her my younger sister boyfriend was her again so she said she's never coming back to the house for her daughter safety. She took half of her stuff out of the house 3 n half months ago and has been making the excuse that her car break down as to why she has not come back for the rest or why she has not visited us yet. Should I pack all of her stuff up then move into her room since she's clearly never coming back?
Sister moved out 3 n half months ago should I take her room?
I’m gonna have to say, talk to your sister FIRST. To make sure if she wants to come back to the house. Then explain to her that you want that room and are close to packing up her stuff.
Cause I HAVE been in this situation before. My siblings and I. When my dad was working up north. He called my mom and convinced her to VISIT him. Well, she packed very little clothes like a trip. She told my little brother I, she doesn’t want anyone in her room or touch her stuff.
It’s been a over a month and my mom calls us to explain. That she can’t come back to the house because my dad wants her to live with him. And she doesn’t have transportation to come back. Also around that time, my little sister and boyfriend kept getting into fights. She needed a place to stay and wanted to come home. She called my mom, asking for her room. That my mom still said she doesn’t want her stuff touched or moved. 🤦🏻♀️
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Hmm maybe I gotta ask my mom to talk with her since I don't have her information. She's staying with my uncle rent free has a job 3 hours away from our family home making $18 a hour rent if she does move out will cost 600-1200 for a 1-3 bed room. Thats why I don't believe she was coming back since it was healthy for her being out their and no more house shooting since her baby almost died last time
Oof, she should take the $600 or $645-75. Trust me, I know about rent prices.
Your post hits close to home to me. And you know what, I ain’t even gonna judge. Cause I HAVE BEEN THERE.
Amen your sister and her baby is safe. My little sister and her boyfriend couldn’t even keep a $1,000 home rental. Cause her boyfriend would tell her “don’t worry babe, I’ll think of something. 🙄 That boy didn’t bring sht to the table! That my little sister was working while pregnant and he was off doing favors for friends 😡. That they moved cause they couldn’t afford the rent payment.
Ooof…. lord bless my family 🙏🏻 Bless this guy and his family 🙏🏻. We try the best we could with our lives to not be judged by others. No one knows what’s in our heart ❤️ and soul. Please protect us, heal us, love, and happiness. In Jesus son, Amen.
Yea my sister boyfriend sells drugs he was able to beat his drug charge I don't know how but he also has a gun charge he's trying to beat. We live in NYC currently and my older sister moved to delware. It's nice talking to someone who can understand what I'm currently going through thank you for blessing my family. O the last thing is since my sister packed up and moved our rent is basic off how many people live with us... my sister was never taken off the lease so I've been paying her rent which is a extra $400 out of my pocket. We are taken her off the else this month since I refuse to pay rent for someone who don't live her anymore
Well that’s good your sister boyfriend beat off that charge.
And you’re welcome, I can definitely relate to that. When it comes to family. I love my family ❤️ And it sounds like you do too.
Yeah, I can understand the rental prices of the amount of people living there. That’s why I’m very careful and confront my family members about the rent payment.
My sister know about the rent payment she just didn't care , she got $12000 in back money for the state and still didn't pay the rent since she moved out. . I 100% do love my family just wish my sister boyfriend would stop getting into trouble dude just got out of jail 3 years ago
No sadly I'm stuck here for alil while and the house has not been shot at in 3 months so we good. Cops were on our block for days making sure it's safe
Thank you love I hope so too, my sister boyfriend is slowly trying to turn his life around he was the one to make the house unsafe... but my sister so in love with him that she don't care
I can understand that. No one is perfect, not even family. But we try being there for each other and worry for our safety at the same time. But we always hope for the best and do what we can.
No lol let her situate her stuff if i was her id be pissed someone packed up my stuff and damn what are u in the hood 3 times shot up and ur parents still let him over like its all good? Thats strange but whatever
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Naaa we in a nice place and she's been saying she's coming for almost 4 months.
Maybe she going through it i mean if she really not coming back then you can and your parents need to get a restraining order on that hoodlum then lol ain't no child of mine bringing riff raff to the house like that hahaha
