The organiser enables members waived entry (£20per entry) and endless free drinks and free food 3 times a week for offline socials (in upmarket parts of London).
She doesn't ask for money, but members can donate as your discretion.
I've become a regular for a few months, attending 3 times a week.
I haven't given money, as I don't see why I should.
I befriended a member of the group that hates the organiser, and does criticise/sabotage her socials. She eventually got removed by the organiser.
I stayed friends with both, as why not? It isn't my dispute
... Now the organiser is bizarrely distancing herself from me - and doesn't want me to attend her free events.
I don't understand why I should be victimised and mistreated, because of their petty dispute... but also don't want to miss out on the free events that offer free drink and food lol. Any advice?