Describe the worst friend you have ever befriended?

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FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

I've had several.
Jack Gadar: claimed to be my friend but was always making fun of me, trying to beat me up and throw rocks and shit at me. He was a psycho. When we got a pool in ourr back yard, dad caught him throwing stones into the pool from the alley about 60 feet away and confronted him about it. We never saw or heard from Jack ever again.
Mike Flowers: He lived 3 houses away from me with his mom and sister. We were about 13 years old. One day he was cool to hang out with, the next, he was a ragging asshole!! One day, I was just out walking near his house when I saw him running in this small field of tall grass across the street from his house. I thought he and bunch of kids were playing Release so, I asked him who we're trying to catch. He told me her name and I helped him catch her. But, once we did, in the tall grass, instead of taking her to the jail (usually a patch of ground in the street in front of his house), he forced her down on the ground and told me to grab her wrists and hold her hands to the ground while he sat on her feet. I figured he was just gonna tickle her. He pulled down her pants and had her half naked on the ground!! I was stunned and had NO idea he was gonna do that and, after a couple seconds I realized I was still holding her hands and I let her go and I don't recall what I did, next, probably called him a few nasty names!! Last I heard, he died about 15 years ago.
Norbert Carr: He was my next door neighbor for a short while living with his mother on the 2nd floor of Mrs. Leech's house. He was in his 30's, I was about 14 and he asked me to go up to his room to show me something he wanted me to have. I went up and it was a white plastic cup that a baseball catcher wears on his crotch for protection from fastballs. I had no use for it and didn't want it but, he insisted I pull down my pants and try it on. After that, he had me lie down on his bed next to him while he played with my dick and made me play with his. Decades later, I found out he also got my brother and my oldest sister! He said he wanted to become a preacher!! THAT figures!!
I considered Chris Sinico to be my best friend until the day he jumped on my back to allow two of the school bullies to beat me up! He was killed by a car a year or so later.
Chickie Schmidt was SORT of a friend and a fellow drummer but he was always saying he was gonna beat me up or he'd even chase me through the school try to do it. He was another psycho. In our adult years, he was a bit more of a friend but I hear he just died about a year ago.
Bill Turney: As he was our bass player for a few months, I thought he was a friend until it was brought to my attention by my singer one night after a frat house party gig that he's been doing shit to try to get ME kicked out of the band!! My singer fired him a day or so later and I haven't seen the fucker since then.
Louis Ulmer: We met him when he was still shitting his diapers and we were already in our early teens. After a few months, his family moved and we never saw him again until he was in his late teens. He "stole" my brother's girlfriend (maybe she chose to go with him, instead) and they had a couple kids together. They invited my brother to live with them in their trailer and, several months later, he woke up one morning and was getting dressed when the kids happened by his room and saw his naked ass while he was pulling up his pants. Next thing we know, my brother's being arrested on child molestation charges!! A decade later, partly because of that, my brother killed himself!

t-8900 · Accepted Answer

I saved him when he was getting beat up by guys bigger then him. Befriended him, took him under my wing, brought him into my circle. He got jealous of me, stole my house keys, broke into my home while I was away, trashed a set up I was making for some bearded dragons, out a used condom on my door handle, threw out a bunch of things that belonged to me, stole a video game, then tried to pin it all on my other friend. Once he was had I beat the sh*t out of him so badly he was black and blue all over his body... might have gone a little overboard back then but I was maybe 16 at the time? Anyways it ended up going in for years. He threw a pumpkin at my house on mischief night and as he was running away I shot him in the ass with my pellet gun. He tried to get me jumped by they either fell through and left him to fend for hims alone or they were still not able to beat me and my friends. This crap went on for like 3 years and I hen finally his ass hot arrested for running a car into someone else's house and hitting two girls inside.

Apulu_3 · Accepted Answer

once this friends of mine who is that typical judgmental person had used the pics of my home, rabbits, car to make her tik tok ID like this girl is on nuts and she just ignored my comment when I wrote "please delete it. The things which you are showing as your lifestyle is actually MINE." but as a responsible mean girl she is she decided to IGNORE such important comment. I couldn't report her video because there was no option as to report with the reason of showing off private life of other person as their without the person's permission or something like that. I am really thankful the tik tok is now BANNED in India at least that girl won't steal something more for tik tok fame. This is the reason I don't share my pics with anyone and not all my friends have came to my home again after that. Now when the classmates were bullying her because they know she have done this drama (actually I am that kid in school whom everyone knows so yeah it was bad for her) she was begging me to save HER. As a generous person I said "Stop bullying her. She is my like my sister so everything which I have is also hers. Don't put your nose in our personal business." and from that day when I supported her even though she didn't deserved it she is really acting like my sister. Not in a good way but I want to say that like she thinks I'm her property or something. She have embarrassed me so many times in our class group and spreaded rumors about me like telling me "Sometimes I think you are that 13 yr old annoying twitter girl who gets offended by everything" and stuffs. Yesterday I had enough of this and I just blocked her and I'm going to ignore her when we meet. I had many fake friends but never like her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I feel awful for saying this, but my ex bestfriend…. we we came friends in 2nd grade, we were the wholesome, two peas in a pod, through thick and thin, thick as thrives, type of friendship. as we got older, maybe 9th grade? i became extremely depressed and started smoking weed etc, so i wasn’t a good friend at that time, ill admit… but she became so toxic — she started hooking up with guys and claiming rape on everyone, of course, none of which was true and proven false… she began smoking weed as well… fast forward to 12th grade… she was a full blown addict to weed (dependency, whatever you want to call it..) but she would steal money from me and her family, she would continue to claim rape, and even pressed charges on her boyfriend of 3 years… where she could get drunk and high while having sex, beg him to choke her and record, and she’d pass out and she woke up. she went to court and pressed felony charges on him for multiple things. she’s still an addict to this day. when she is sober and out of trouble, she is the sweetest, but she is just destructive. i had to let her go because of it. i couldn’t handle it anymore.

asler · Answer

I've had lots of bad friends throughout the years but this one stuck with me because I saw her as a sister and our friendship lasted a long time. for the purposes of not making her known well call her Delilah.
Our friendship had a fairly good start and it stayed that way for a year. we bonded over manga's, K-pop, boys, high school and whatnot. After that year, she moved away to another state and I started wondering if shed ever come back. In my second year, I met this guy, K, who would become my first love, we instantly clicked and after a month of getting to know each other we started dating. Little did I know he was only into me for one thing and his true colors started to show after dating for a month. he was saying stuff behind my sisters back whenever we got together (that should have been the first red flag). because of this among other red flags that started popping up we would frequently have fights and be on and off for the next 3 months. I will admit that I am no saint. I would go and vent to guys during our breaks and I guess he took that as me cheating on him. It continued like this until our 3rd month. I started noticing that he was more distant than usual because he had not spoken to me in a week and I had zero idea of what I had done wrong. After that week, my sister started noticing and asked me if I wanted to break up for good, and my mind was just tired of this toxicity so I said yes but then I thought about giving the relationship a second chance. Ultimately, we ended up breaking up and I was heartbroken by it for 5 years (only my close friends knew about this). Anyhow, this is where Delilah comes into play. After 5 months of breaking up, Delilah comes back and initially we pick off where we left off but after 2 weeks I started noticing that she was avoiding me so I confront her about it and that's when she tells me that she has started developing feelings for K and wants my blessing. Of course, I gave her my blessing and a warning to watch out when he does become distant because again I believe in putting aside my feelings for friendship. She however takes this as me wanting to take her man away and threatens to beat me up. after that I was sure I no longer wanted to speak to her (should have kept it that way). lord and behold, Delilah and k break up 5 weeks later (still kept my guard up). It wasn't until her posse kicked her out of the group that we started becoming closer. I felt bad and thought she should have somebody to rely on (big mistake). I am not gonna deny that we had some awesome times together but these are some of the red flags I noticed throughout our friendship:
1. she was still talking to K even after they broke up
2. she kissed 2 of my exes and tried to steal some away from me
3. she acted like it was too much if I asked for a favor
4. she made me feel bad if I tried to place boundaries
5. I never got a happy birthday or happy holidays text from her
6. she hated that I had goals
7. she rarely had my back
8. anything I said to her in confidence was now out to the entire world. if I had a crush on someone she knew they would know about it.
9. she would frequently embarrass me in front of mutual friends.
10. used some stuff I said against me.
11. she would try to make me talk to k and my other exes
12. I never got invitations or offers to go somewhere even though I would do that for her.
13. after 3rd year, I noticed most of her conversations were mostly about sex. at first, I liked that she was open about it but then it became all she talked about.
14. she would try to copy me.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

I literally have no irl friends because of my friend group from school. The way they treated me traumatized me so much I can't trust anyone.

They relentlessly bullied me until I quit school because of them then had the audacity to all text me when they found out asking me to come back so we could work it out. I was so overcome with anxiety and depression I literally had panic attacks every day at the thought of going to school.

We've since talked and they apologized but its not enough to fix the damage and I don't think I will ever forgive them.

This was only 2 people in the group of 5 total. The other 3 didn't do anything, never said anything they just kept quiet and let it happen. So I decided to cut everyone out. Those 3 haven't apologized for that.
The only time I've spoken to anyone recently was because of deaths of a classmate and a couple of our teachers.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Recent past:
She was a "frenemy" who recently snapped and flew off the handle.

Long ago:
She was a friend who said she "found her place" with a crowd I believed was dangerous. She dropped out of school and judged my desire to continue getting a good education as useless and spiteful to her chosen lifestyle which nearly killed her numerous times due to drug addiction.

Today, as of this moment:
"Frenemy" more and more revealed by mutual friends she also lied to remains booted out by the group while my old friend is back, "cleaned up" & working for me while trying to get a college degree that I'm sponsoring.

Alyssa11 · Answer

I think my ex best friend. We were friends since we were about 14 and had a terrible break up two years ago, made up and broke up again recently this year.
Our birthdays are literally a few days apart and we did everything together. I felt like for the longest time she was my other half and soul mate. Sadly I was always there for her and when I hit rock bottom, she was not there for me and then shamed me for listening to me a couple of times. She broke my heart on levels I cannot even describe and because of her I have a lot of trust issues. I let her go and wish her the best far, far away from me. I look at things positively now because I am more independent than ever now and that is power.

CinnamonBunPrincess · Answer

The worse friend was literally the friend from hell she would verbally abuse me and she was a very ugly person both inside and out. She would have me wait with her for hours in a store just to end up buying one thing and have me walk around for hours after I told her my feet were hurting and my toe was bleeding she didn't care, she would gang up on me with her other friends too and nah uh she needed to go I was fed up and was willing to fight her at this point so I'm glad I cursed her out and ended the friendship before it got out of hand even more than it already did.

Seinna · Answer

One "friend" I had tried to blackmail me with something really sensitive to me when we had a fight. It was ugly and I'm so glad she's no longer in my life. She was also broken in many ways... extremely sexualised at a young age. My parents didn't like her and they were right but at that time I had no choice but to be friends with her.

When I was little I had this "friend" who only played with me because my family was more rich than hers and she was always hungry so she could come and eat at our house. That stung when she finally admitted it even though I could tell for some time.

AmandaYVR · Answer

I don't really remember any absolutely terrible friends. Lots of people you have high hopes for a friendship but once you get to know each other well, you just don't really gel. But all forgettable. Not like a betrayal or something.

One person does come to mind though. He was pretty selfish. Always wanted to do what he wanted to do, whether that be activities, restaurants, movies. Always what he wanted. He also played tricks 'jokes' sometimes, which were not funny. He was energetic and sometimes fun, but he also used me and when I didn't conform to what he wanted or needed, there was often friction. Wasn't worth it.

rosesanddaisies · Answer

I've bumped into a lot of bad friends or people taking advantage of me. But in 4th grade, this group of girls pretended to be my friend just to make fun of me because they'd ask me to do trendy dances and then laugh their heads off. On the last day of school they stole my yearbook and gave it to their little buddy saying that they could keep it. I tried to get it back, but they kept saying that my "name wasn't written on it" but it WAS. I had to scratch my way through. This other girl wouldn't let me hang out with her and her friend group even though I had no friends at all. The only time she'd let me hangout when she was impressed with me. I've hated them ever since.

HighValue · Answer

Someone that I was friends with since I was a teenager. He ended up doing drugs and stealing, going to jail, etc. Later he became a teacher (poor quality one) that got fired for poor performance a couple times. he failed the state teacher test multiple times before finally getting lucky to pass. He got married and had kids, but they have some health problems likely due to his past drug use affecting his offspring. (quitting drugs doesn't undo the damage to the reproductive system). Then he left his wife and kids to be with another woman.
Yep, you guessed it, he is a democrat. lol

When we were younger I used to earn money and take him and other friends to go do stuff and to eat, but later on when he was teaching and making good money and I wasn't making much, he never once took me anywhere.

Anyways, I'll never be friends with someone like that again. Such a waste of time.

LinaDaGoddess · Answer

I thought someone was my friend until she forgot that I paid her back… (she paid for a product and I gave her the money a week later) we fell out, and then I found the text messages months later that proved I had paid her…. When she was upset with me., she ghosted, disrespected, flaked on me, she called me a negative person, even after I’ve been very supportive of her and her bad ass kids.. (my mental health isn't where it should be) and I’ve told her that, even when my days are shit or I’m going through my own issues, I’m always 100 with her… needless to say, she opened my eyes that people really are fake.. age doesn’t matter.

Starla1234 · Answer

I made a friend in year 4 who I got to know really well and she told me she had a little sis who was sick in hospital long term. One day about 2 years later, she came over to my house and her mum dropped her off and I said to her mum ‘sorry about to hear about your daughter in hospital’ and the mum looked soo confused. She then said she only had one daughter which was my friend, and she didn’t even know anyone in hospital!

Turned out my ‘friend’ had invented a fake sister and had been lying to me for 2 years lol

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I’m not sure if it’s the worst but there was a mentally challenged woman who kept harassing me and trying to force me to be her friend against my will and she borrowed $5,000 TWICE to bribe a guy into dating her because she weighed 300 pounds from eating too much and than her welfare mom and minimum wage dad had to pay off her debt and when they yelled at her for stealing their money TWICE she starts threatening suicide on Facebook and going into detail about ways she plans to kill herself and when I agreed to meet her at a coffee shop to discuss her suicidal thoughts, she shows up over an hour late and another time I invited her for burgers and she shows up 45 minutes late. This is the girl who would not stop harassing me and trying to force me to be her friend against my will, and when I agreed, after 3 months, she treats me like trash cause I’m not popular enough for her.

Tamara18 · Answer

Me and my sister once had a friend at school. I will not say her real name but I will call her 'D'. We acted very kind towards her, but as the years went by she became evil and manipulating and we don't know why. She acted like a sociopath towards us, but mostly towards my sister. My sister and her were best friends. D ended up getting my sister into a big depression that made her isolate herself. D was always the first to start arguing with us and she got angry of almost everything. I really regret that me and my sister met her. She was the worst friend I have ever had.

Crazycookie23 · Answer

Oh gosh, there's been so many and they've all done so much messed up things that it's hard to say who the worst was considering that they were all horrible. My most recent one was my now ex friend that I just posted about on my page, who pretty much got mad at me because I didn't want to date him. Instead of handling it like an adult, he proceeded to harass me and start a fight with me and then made a horrible comment about my one year old son..

Thatasianlove16 · Answer

A girl who wanted to take her shirt off while my boyfriend and I were on FaceTime with her. She was drunk but she apparently had a just of doing that to friends. She lied about having cancer and having kids. Didn’t know to question it cause she was always in the hospital but it’s because she has a terrible uti. She was the homewrecker for one of my teachers. She had the same classes as his kids. He was a piece of shit for even doing it but she would go to his house to “breast pump “

Anonymous · Answer

I was there for her, when her mom passed away, i was there for years. We went on vacation together, her home was my second home, her mom was my second mom. We did everything together. When her mom passed away I WAS THERE for her. She slept with me for 2 weeks, so her dad could go on a business trip without worrying about her being alone at home. And she still ended up leaving me for a girl that had cursed at her with the word 'cancer' (a curse word in my language), when that girl KNEW her mom died from having cancer. I don't get why she left me for that lmao. Now she regrets it, but idc anymore. Too late.

JC1981 · Answer

My ex bestie, befriended her at the pub. Super bad influence to a young very innocent girl at the time. She took a fancy to me and interfered in all my realationships and told everyone in town we were lovers in graphic detail. Oh she also called me several times a week at evil hours of the morning claiming she was going to off herself need me to talk her out of it. She also subtly put me down to boost herself. Safe to say I gave her the flick after 10 years. She also owed me money.

DarkCarousel · Answer

Other than typical mean girls in high school, I only had one that was pretty bad. She was nice to me when I was the new kid but she was kind of an odd person. When I started making other friends, she would lose her mind if I hung out with someone other than her. Get very possessive. She’d say “your parents are strict and don’t let you have a lot of freedom. When they do, you should be hanging out with ME.”

Carolmille · Answer

Had this friend back in high school who tried to influence me badly. She did drugs and would often want me to join her at weird parties and places. We were next door neighbors, our parents were close and we’d see very often. Thankfully we moved before she could really influence me. I cut ties with her and didn’t bother contacting her.

proteus912 · Answer

I don't think she was a bad person but she suffered from depression and had a hard time finding a boyfriend. We always organised to see each other and she would cancel with short notice. Anyway, the one time I cancelled on her, she stopped talking to me for months. We got back into contact recently and organised to catch up. The day before we planned to meet, she cancelled and I haven't spoken to her since

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Maybe this guy who was obviously crazy once he started talking. Had mental problems did drugs to make it go away but really it amped him up more. Got mad when I wouldn't talk to him on the phone and talk to him at ridiculous times of night whe he was having meltdowns. I was like dude I have my own life to live and I can't be there for you 24/7 . Dude became a downer left him.

Rosalindaa__ · Answer

There was this chick i was friends with since middle school until 2 years ago.
Tbh she was just a toxic drama queen. Im more of a listener than a talker so I didn’t mind the fact she was always the one who talked. And i felt bad for her because she didn't have anyone, she had money but no attention from her parents.
But she’d either talk about herself, a guy or other people to gossip about. Like damn i knew things about people I’ve never met 🤦🏻‍♀️.

So i knew to never trust her with my issues and secrets.
She’s never happy for me, when I’m always happy for her. That’s unless she gets to experience the nice things in my life with me. She brings me down in front of my other friends. Try telling het she is wrong? We always fought because she couldn’t admit she was wrong about something, no matter how small the issue lol. When we fought she’d try to make me jealous by acting close with my friends, who didn’t even like her lmao.

Anonymous · Answer

She would constant borrow money, have me watch her kids, clean her house, and would turn around and talk mad shit about me... later one she ended up sleeping with my boyfriend and I finally had enough after doing her game for 10 years and I finally quit talking to her

loves2learn · Answer

I’ve dealt with so many mean girls. They ate all the same. Act like they are your friend then get jealous and threatened by you then turn on you and try to ruin your life. Happened in 6th grade and happened 2 years ago.

KieranByrne · Answer

Two psychopaths, actually became really good friends, they did not like I stood and took all the abuse they gave, all that manipulation it broke them!

One psychopath whom raped and murdered (The only evidence I have is word of mouth) and another who was sociopathic!

I would win the fight, only they both like knives!

MCheetah · Answer

Long story short, they were a fat, narcissitic, selfish asshole who stalked women, and almost left me stranded, and had the gall to get mad at ME for their f*ck up. Just a sh*tty garbage person, all around. Stupid dyke.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

This one girl her name was Daniela she would only talk to me or call me when she needed money or someone to talk to but never wanted to chill or hang out. I decided to cut her off.

melanieeeB · Answer

Well she wasn't a bad person but she had a lot of mental problems and those 12 years with here were really mentally challenging and drowning.. i didn't realize it, until i left

KellyPlayz333555 · Answer

Well, someone from my old school bullied me and we were friends, ever since I was in elementary school. She started bullying me socially and physically for no reason, while we were in middle school and high school. It was the worst... So I won't see her anytime soon

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

Manipulative, narcissistic, and full of lies. Had no problems using people to get what they wanted and didn't care who they hurt.

JohnK123 · Answer

I used to be friends with this girl. I started liking her a few months ago and found out she had a boyfriend. Now she only wants drama and thinks I want to start fights with her. She would be a good friend if I hadn’t liked her now all she wants is my attention etc

Agape93 · Answer

Thought he was a good guy. But apparently he has some issues regarding family members he needs to work out.

Star_88 · Answer

Demon in human's body, cursed soul, jealous, miserable, evil, fake, manipulative and a chronic liar.

Marianna145 · Answer

Wow tough one most of them were awful... they betrayed me or were jealous of me

Ailito · Answer

I'm not sure... I've never had that many friends. So honestly I can't remember any. Bad or good.

Confusedblondegirl · Answer

she’s christian and i thought if we don’t talk politics and religion it would be fine but it comes up in other ways and she always slides it in to conversation it’s always this feeling like i can’t be myself because she’s trying to convert me

Hangry06 · Answer

A childgood friends. We met as teens again. Selfish and wanted to bring me down

MrPotato69 · Answer

I don't remember every detail but it was something like that:
We became friends. We spent time together. We helped each other and some day just for no reason he joined group of bullies and started bullying me with them. It was in elementary school. I hope I will never meet someone like him again

boltfox20 · Answer

All I will say about him is that I took him in when he was homeless and he repaid that kindness by spying on my family and getting my brother sent to prison.

Heartache0405 · Answer

This one guy with the same name as me who threatened my little brother with a knife. I ended up ignoring him all throughout our freshman year of high school until he dropped out

Justneedtokno · Answer

I wouldn’t say worst friend but I’ve learned my lesson.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

My first friend was a judgmental controlling person.

NathanDavis · Answer

well, that would be R... he liked one Nickelback song

ChattyGuy43 · Answer

A guy who I thought was my best friend until I found out he was dating my ex-gf and went to her city to live with her and be her boyfriend, knowing it was killing me back home.

Sonorous · Answer

He pretended like we had never met when I reached out to him after I moved away.

soulbabe · Answer

Kinda can't I never really had friends and still don't fuck even fake friends didn't bother with me 😅

clampfan101 · Answer

The closest thing to a bad friendship I’ve had is the kind where we talk less and less over time. This is always for unknown reasons, as they all start online. My only guess is that I’m boring. :/

TexasRed95 · Answer

She was the only woman that was into me but she was completely obsessed with me. She took pictures of my house at night and followed me around.

exitseven · Answer

I do not really have any horror stories. It is the advantage of not having many friends.

msc545 · Answer

My "friend" and business partner who embezzled 10 million from our company and got away with it.

SphynxUK · Answer

I don’t think I’ve had a terrible friend.

Assi2k · Answer

My motto “laugh with many, don’t trust any.”

Anonymous · Answer

Well this is a person I befriended then dated. He cheated on me with 15 girls an

Rozaybonet69 · Answer

Fake snakes motherfuckers

Anonymous · Answer

OMG! I COULD WRITE A FKN BOOK! SO BAD

ItsMeElliana · Answer

no one.

Kkoalalita · Answer

Dealing with one right now…😐

OddBeMe · Answer

I read this as “beheaded”…

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t know maybe one from here

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Just one word.  Sociopath.

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