If you have a life partner and tons of money and can provide a good life for them (which doesn't seem possible in today's world) then have a bunch of them. But people enjoy their freedom, so it's not the same world anymore to bring kids into, it's just not worth it for them or for you.
Mainly because I'm terrified of passing down my disabilities and genes to my kids. I don't want anyone else to have the same problems as I do, so I choose not to have kids of my own.
So many reasons. Shit, piss, barf, germs. Whining, crying, drama. Constant attention and worry. They get in trouble. They are total money pits - food, clothes, toys, sports, school, medical.
1
0 Reply
Anonymous
(18-24)
+1 y
1. They're annoying 2. Don't wanna ruin my body 3. The World is already overpopulated as it is. We don't need to add more people.
Right now, I haven't got me a gentleman. Until I meet him and then figure out what we doing with our lives together, babies will remain an avoided topic.
I did my time when I had to take care of my brother and foster kids. I hated sacrificing my time and having responsibilities of others put on me when I wanted to go out.
first off all pregnancy is son of a bitch and then u dont get peace of mind to the rest of your life. yeah there are benefits to them and they so friggin cute when little but they dont outweigh the minuses
I 100% want kids, 110% want kids, I love the family life and building a family! I understand its not for everyone and that's okay, we all have our reasons
I am just focused on my career and the economy is really bad. Also I have a high possibility of my kids having seizures and it scares them hell out of me
Because the environment is about to collapse in thirty years, and possibly the united states as well. I don't want to raise kids in that kind of hell hole, it's just not fair to them.
Just personal choice, besides I've done enough bathing, feeding, burping, and changing the children of my extended family (sisters, nieces, nephews, cousins etc) that I have more hours in than most parents.
@Hangry06 Lol my second cousin is like that. I have a cousin who's close to my age who used to bite people when he was a toddler. He was a real troublemaker. His parents were fed up with having to put up with his behavior so they used to pinch his ears.
It was because I didn't want them, I couldn't have them. That really limits your dating choices when you are younger. Now it isn't an issue.
1
0 Reply
Anonymous
(18-24)
+1 y
As of right now, I don’t know if I will find the right person. I want kids, but I don’t want kids if I don’t have the right person.
2
0 Reply
Anonymous
(25-29)
+1 y
I want nothing to do with kids, pregnancy, or anything related. Men get screwed and have no rights in any of it, so why would I want to subject myself to that?
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
51Opinion
If you have a life partner and tons of money and can provide a good life for them (which doesn't seem possible in today's world) then have a bunch of them. But people enjoy their freedom, so it's not the same world anymore to bring kids into, it's just not worth it for them or for you.
Mainly because I'm terrified of passing down my disabilities and genes to my kids. I don't want anyone else to have the same problems as I do, so I choose not to have kids of my own.
So many reasons. Shit, piss, barf, germs. Whining, crying, drama. Constant attention and worry. They get in trouble. They are total money pits - food, clothes, toys, sports, school, medical.
1. They're annoying
2. Don't wanna ruin my body
3. The World is already overpopulated as it is. We don't need to add more people.
Right now, I haven't got me a gentleman.
Until I meet him and then figure out what we doing with our lives together, babies will remain an avoided topic.
I did my time when I had to take care of my brother and foster kids. I hated sacrificing my time and having responsibilities of others put on me when I wanted to go out.
first off all pregnancy is son of a bitch and then u dont get peace of mind to the rest of your life. yeah there are benefits to them and they so friggin cute when little but they dont outweigh the minuses
I 100% want kids, 110% want kids, I love the family life and building a family!
I understand its not for everyone and that's okay, we all have our reasons
I think most of these comments would’ve saved me ten years ago.. lol if I read them, I would’ve reconsidered having kids I personally think.
regrets?
Definitely not a regret, I just wish I would’ve waited later to have them.
I am just focused on my career and the economy is really bad. Also I have a high possibility of my kids having seizures and it scares them hell out of me
Because the environment is about to collapse in thirty years, and possibly the united states as well. I don't want to raise kids in that kind of hell hole, it's just not fair to them.
Just personal choice, besides I've done enough bathing, feeding, burping, and changing the children of my extended family (sisters, nieces, nephews, cousins etc) that I have more hours in than most parents.
1. They cost money.
2. They are an added responsibility.
Other than that, I see nothing wrong with them.
I'm not completely against children, though. I just don't care either way. I'm neutral.
It never really interested me. I like the freedom of not being tied down to raising kids.
Because I cannot (in good conscience) maketh something with the capacity to suffer. Much less sayeth I'm doing it for the sake of "love" or whatever.
Sayeth thou wisely, dear sonorous, indeed; ye speaketh with wisdom. LOL
Wherefore thank thee, mine own cousin! I desire thee a valorous life 🙏
My lifes not ready for kids yet iam 32 to but am not ready to be a mother yet
Little kids are annoying and they stare and demand stuff. They don't know how to keep themselves clean. Also too loud
Lol.
@Hangry06 Lol my second cousin is like that. I have a cousin who's close to my age who used to bite people when he was a toddler. He was a real troublemaker. His parents were fed up with having to put up with his behavior so they used to pinch his ears.
@Cherry234 Yes they also bite and pinch you. All you can do is awkardly smile 🙄
It was because I didn't want them, I couldn't have them.
That really limits your dating choices when you are younger.
Now it isn't an issue.
As of right now, I don’t know if I will find the right person. I want kids, but I don’t want kids if I don’t have the right person.
I want nothing to do with kids, pregnancy, or anything related. Men get screwed and have no rights in any of it, so why would I want to subject myself to that?