How do I have a relationship with a competitive sister?

[Anonymous]

My sister is constantly trying to compare her self to me and one up me. How can we have a fun functioning relationship if this is her motive? I’m lost and confused. What to do? She won’t be her self anymore. We can’t hardly have a good laugh. Is this fixable?

[jshm2]

You don't.

You go no contact and cut her out your life.

The time to do anything was when you were still young and your parents could do something. But you're now both adults and can really ruin each others lives if things come to it.

[IMuser]

Let her win. She needs to be better than you so let her be. You will have a peace of mind and she will have her ego satisfied

[CrazyGirl2]

No, I don’t have a sister. BUT I do have. Competitive cousins, even some of my friends can be very competitive when it comes to silly things like the “better boyfriend” best dressed that day, etc…

[n4meAL]

hmm I'm also the same as you, maybe it can still be fixed, usually will be good when needs help.

[UniquelyBasic]

If you reasured her already then you can't really do much else. She has to change on her own.