I heard a lot that some guys are nervous about what his friends would think of his gf...
Sorry for my horrible English :D
LOL, a lot of good answers here . however it depends on the guy and also how the girl feels (such as wanting to know her bf's friends or not) and wiether she wants to be eye candy for her bf's friends or not.
some guys get nervous (as/said by others here) because if they know their friends are some what jerks and have reps of stealing other guys gf's then yeh , they may hesitate about intro's or hanging around them with thier gf's.
some guys may be jerks who ignore their gf's while in public while doing a lot of stuff in private.
some guys may worry that his girlfriend may see one of his friends more attractive(in whatever way) than him and may hesitate on intro's.
some guys ma yworry about how their friends may respond on his choice of a girlfriend because of the school's clicques statis popular person with a geek type thing.
some guys may not feel like treating their gf's as trophies to show off to everyone what a good catch he may have found.
some guys are just clueless as to how to handle such cercumstances on their own . unless his gf
lets him know she'd be honored to be his eye candy on his arm .
as another guy put it here there are unnumerable number of reasons why a guy would or wouldn't want to do such a thing.
it depends on both the guy and his gf's personalities and belief systems and what they are willing to do or not do for each other in this area..
Primarily because most of my friends probably don't really care. None of my circle of friends really care about how good/hot of a chick we can bag. If she's into a lot of the same type of stuff I do with my friends, then we might have a good reason to invite her to join us. If she's just going to be bored off her ass while we're doing our thing, then I wouldn't bother. I'd rather spend an evening with just my friends, and then another evening with just my girlfriend, rather than one evening where neither side is pleased with the results.
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don't apologize about your English skills because some people around the world are better others are not so good and I think it's because either he is not ready yet and he wants to take it slow or he just worry about what she thinks of his friends I hope I helped
I don't date girls that I can't trust, so it is no problem for me to bring girls around my friends. And my friends aren't the type who would disrespect me or my girl by being rude or hitting on her.
But not all girls are as trustworthy, and not all friends are either, so in those situations, I could understand a guy keeping his girl away from his friends.
Maybe he's not a show off, maybe he doesn't want them taking her, maybe he's scared they'll think she's ugly.
Maybe...
Maybe people ask questions with many many answers a lot, without any parameters, do you just want us to think of every possibility and write it out for you?
Do you just want us to say how we'd feel?
If I love a girl I wouldn't be showing her off to anyone. She'd just be with me and they'd meet her. But I wouldn't go around twirling her around or making her wear slutty clothes so everyone would be jealous. It's childish.
i agree with you but some men not all of us but some men do that to their girlfriend to get her wearing slutty clothes to make people do you know why they do that to their woman when they suppose to be treated with respect and love
I would because then my friends would get off my back of getting a girlfriend lol
Show her off? Like some sort of a trophy? Is that what you mean? I would not do that. I would not treat my girlfriend like a trophy.
Yeah I'd most likely be nervous.
It's just some of my friends are kinda different than me. So yeah.. idk.
i know a lot of people that want to keep those two separate. You have your mates and then you have your girl friend. There is no need to mix the two.
I always liked to show off females...but...that is me...
Those are just two separate areas of my life that I don't want to mix. Of course they can meet each other, but to all hang out together, no.
If my friends are girlfriend steelers than it would be the best choice.
Because that is not what she is meant for...
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