
If your girl was taking a pregnancy test, would you rather find out the results together or she takes it alone and tells you results later?


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Assuming sex out of marriage here. I'd rather find out together. Lies about pregnancy are a woman's biggest tool for ruining his life. She can lie and say she is pregnant when she is not. She can lie and say she is not pregnant to bring him a false sense of security then spring a court appearance on him for child support down the road. NOT ALL women are that evil, but there are enough evil women that a man cannot risk trusting ANY of them. At least when you find out together there is no doubt. Granted a guy should not be stupid enough to sleep with a woman without knowing her character and vice versa but it happens.
Absolutely I wonna be there when she takes it. But I never will be. Had out two kids no more. There were reasons why she did the first one with out me, but I told her specifically on the second one that I wanted to be there and she ignored me and did it herself anyway. It hurt but what can I do.
Ex did the same, she fell unexpectedly pregnant but rather than talk to me she hid it from me and took the test with her best friend
Aw that sucks you wanted to be there bur couldn't
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in a long-term romantic partnership i'd rather find out together in a long-term romantic partnership that's much different than a purely sexual relatiopnship also whether your just fuckin or even more it's a bad look to ever make women take pregnancy test alone and ya gotta understand with sex there's a chance for pregnancy even if the relationship was just sexual im thinkin if feelins grow if we did find out together i figure automatically i can be promoted from fuck buddy to relationship material that's the way i look at that
She is my girl and anything that she does in the realm of pregnancy which would affect both of us should be shared amongst us both. There’s no space for a Lone-wolfing it in a relationship.
Besides for me I want to be the most present father possible which means being there for all the moments including the moments before the birth.
NO WOMEN should breed with you. You need to be EXTINCT. I FEAR that child and woman in your presence.
Sorry about the creepy cyber stocker that seems to be following me. It seems they don’t really hold true to their title “no BS”
however she feels more comfortable. I'm sure i will notice she's pregnant sooner or later. She can't hide it forever lol
Haha well it's not about hiding it. Just doing it together vs being told later on
i'm cool either way. i don't need to be first I guess lol
@Apple1996 are you pregnant again already?
Not sure need to test 😂
oh no! keep us updated lol
It's funny at first thought I wouldn't care. But the fact that you even asked makes me wonder why she'd even need to hide it. Because maybe she isn't pregnant and is maybe using some other friends pee stick to manipulate the guy.
I guess it's the fact that you asked it colors my answer. 🤣
Omg she ain't hiding it. Some women just like doing a pregnancy reveal so they wait a few days and set up a surprise to tell the guy
Not hiding it eh... awfully convenient for her to choose to do it in SECRET.
You to her. The real test is the one she gets when we go see Maury. 😂🧬 I'm joking
Don't joke, paternity fraud is huge and women absolutely believe they are entitled to commit paternity fraud. I did a post a year or so ago on GAG about paternity fraud and you should have seen the crazy AF reasons women came up with for NOT testing paternity. One girl said something along the lines of "what of the person in the lab doing the testing deliberately changes the results... it could happen"!
When it comes to a child 'its momma's baby and daddy's maybe". Trust but verify.
She can take it alone I had a vasectomy years ago. Not mine!
I knew someone that had a baby after a vasectomy so it's possible but very small chance
Usually that happens within 10 weeks of the operation because of the leftover sperm in the system and most Doctors want two zero count sperm test before they say you can go bareback. Actually, an infinitesimal chance, but you have more of a chance at winning Russia Rulett[possible wrong spelling] with an automatic.
This person it happened to 14 years after having it done 😂
Well, they say GOD works in strange ways and I guess this was one of them. surprise!
I'm one that's always excited to be around to find out the good news and two, I've said this before a woman's body is a work of art, I'll take every chance to see it in action and bare including when she is finding out if she is pregnant or not.
A pregnancy test is a big thing
As a man I would want to be there for every milestone in the baby's development and that includes pregnancy test
We take it together. That way she knows im fat and not pregnant.
We both plan to have my daughter so I pick together and a week later we got our answer lol time flys my daughter a teenager now🥰!
I've only experienced it with her finding out first... which was her preference. If she had preferred finding out together, I would have :)
I might as well be there to either celebrate with her or to console her
100% together.. it's not fair for her to do it alone. Despite it being negative or positive it's important that you be there for her and share the experience
@True_Sage I don't understand your point?
@True_Sage How is that possible? if you do a paternity test?
I think she should be able to take it by herself. That way she can digest the news and process it in her own time and in her own way. Then she can make the announcement whenever she feels ready.
If we were trying, together- otherwise she could take it anytime she feels comfortable.
either way i’d like my bad news as soon as possible tho🤣🤣
Awh why wouldn't it be good news tho?
i don’t want kids, i want to get a vasectomy
As of now, i think i wouldn't want to have babies... so either way it will be very scary 😅
Depends on what I’m doing.. if I’m at work. She can tell me later. If I’m at home sitting on my ass playing video games, we can find out together.
Both, please. I want a statement from her “saying pregnant” 🤰🏻. And, then to show me the test. Plus, if you guys are Smart… don’t you want flowers or pregnancy food or something 🤷🏻♂️
Personally I knew everything what time not only by her mood swings, or change in additude but by her random change in taste/flavor 😋😜🤪
It's nice to find out together, but it's MUCH MORE important to find out.
Take it from one who was NEVER told, TWICE!😳😵💫
If she doesn't mind I think it would be fun to do so together.
God Bless
If she is pregnant, it's not mine so there would be a problem
Whatever is more comfortable for her, I don't mind.
I don't think I have a strong preference. Though some women have faked pregnancy tests to get men to put a knee on the ground.
Together. You can't trust women on their own with those. Nor can you trust its yours.
If she hides the test my first thought would be she suspects the baby isn't mine.
Would rather know if she is pregnant or not?
No both ways you'll find out
Whatever is available at the time
It’s nice when you look at it together
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