Agree or disagree: You don't owe an acquaintance shit, not sure why they feel so entitled to your time and energy?

[Uptowngirl88]

Like honestly get some friends. The cripple girl who got stabbed by her boyfriend several times keeps begging us for help and when we don't do it she puts on a sad story. No offense but I don't care. I dont know her, she's not a friend, nor a family member. I don't owe her anything. She really needs to get some friends. I'm only an acquaintance.

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[Bluemax]

Under the circumstances you described, you aren't obligated to help.

That being said, people who walk the earth doing nothing more than they are obligated to do in general make the world a worse place. Those who do more than they are obligated, provided it doesn't hurt them, make the world a better place.

If I am not for myself, who will be for me?
If I am only for myself, what am I?
If not now, when?

[Uptowngirl88]

I'm just weary of who I help. Now if it were an elderly person, a pregnant woman or a child I would help without even second guessing it. Her , she has this sense of entitlement

[legalboxers]

can I get an AMEN

[Uptowngirl88]

🤣🙌🏾

[legalboxers]

ty for mho

[ohshee]

You dont owe anyone anything. You do t have to like. You dont have to respect you dont have to talk or listen. . You dont even have to feel. And all above is your choice.. sometimes when a girl gets with a guy.. and maybe her family said he's a bad guy and maybe there warned hete over and over until they are heart broken they can't take the pain of watching her in pain so they say good bye. And one day she needs them but know one is there.. maybe they have passed who knows I help someone every day it's like I'm guided to them ot them to me. I'm not even an acquaintance it's the first time I've ever seen them but if I'm in a girl like you described 2 mi I would take my day and get her set up somehow better than what she is right now. Either she's asking you to use you or she's asking you because there is nobody else that she has all you have to do is look into her eyes they would tell you everything I help people every single day I don't know any of them most of the time 75% of the time probably but you could go to the Salvation Army thrift store any place and get anything that they needed or wanted and lots of things for you to just twenty bucks you could take her to McDonald's you could go buy her $20 worth of groceries and she can eat a week I don't know what kind of helps you is asking you 4 but that's why you have a heart that's why you have a mouth that's why you have your own choice you can make it you choose who you want to be by the things you say and do we all do if you wanted to do anything you could open up a GoFundMe account for her and explain her story so many times you don't have to give money or material object to help somebody sometimes you just need a friend or somebody that they can just vent to anything maybe they're scared to be at home maybe they're scared that the boyfriends going to come back but anyway no you don't know her anything or anybody else

[Rab1901]

I think everyone is entitled to at least a basic level of respect like if someone got stabbed by her boyfriend several times, people should care because she is a human being. Acquaintances don't have to go above and beyond by giving her money, roses, chocolate and ice cream, but have some common courtesy. It's not always easy for some people to make friends and I imagine it being a lot more difficult after being stabbed multiple times by a romantic partner.

[Irunya41]

I do agree but can be hard to practice this after being expected to give all your life

[Uptowngirl88]

Not hard for me at all. Maybe you should stop worrying about what others think. You're 41 years old

[Irunya41]

You're right. I try now to put others thoughts aside. I just didn't grow up in a way that that was the normal thing so I spend my life fighting to

[TallAnon]

We don't owe anyone anything. That would be a pretty empty world though

[Uptowngirl88]

We truly don't

[douride2]

I have a few acquaintances similar to this.

[msc545]

You really are a cold bitch.

[Uptowngirl88]

I really don't think I am. I'm just weary of who I help. Now if it were an elderly person, a pregnant woman or a child I would help without even second guessing it. Her , she has this sense of entitlement

[msc545]

I've read most of your stuff. You are.

[Uptowngirl88]

Well thanks 😊

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's true you dont owe anybody anything

[Uptowngirl88]

Especially an acquaintance

[Bklynbadboy12]

I agree

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii I don't know where the rest of my comments are but two people I was just about to respond to including you comments is gone. This isn't the first time. Anyways, if she were a very close friend or family or a random elderly person I'd help her. But all she is , is an acquaintance. We have no bond nor friendship with her. She dont try to build bonds with people she just beg for help from everyone. No one wants to help her. All she do is chase men but then when they find out she cripple they diss her then she try calling us for help. We ignore her. We don't owe her nothing. She acts like we do just because she cripple yet she don't do nothing for anyone else

[Uptowngirl88]

All I'm saying is all she wants is acquaintances yet expect us to help her. She's only an acquaintance we don't owe her shit.

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii she has commitment issues when it comes to friends but yet the only one she committed to was the man who stabbed her several times. she's kinda the way you decsribed yourself yet expect us to help. We not helping people like that. So we watching her struggle up and down the street not our problem

[wiltonaimes]

ok sociopath. was there a point to this story?

[Uptowngirl88]

Get a life and some friends. Not my fault your a loser kid

[wiltonaimes]

and you've just realised that nobody is owed anything looool. wow, you're not very smart.

[Uptowngirl88]

Nobodies reading your essay.

[wiltonaimes]

nobody is reading your sociopathic rants.

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