Having a baby. A good idea or a bad one?

[Anonymous]

Good

Bad

[dustybiker]

Are you stable? Have a home and solid job? Ever been around kids before? How patient are you?
Try working in a daycare. That might help let you know if you are ready.

[Asker]

I do work in daycare lol

[dustybiker]

So what so you think? Good or bad idea?

[Asker]

Not sure that’s why I asked lol

[dustybiker]

If you don’t know in your position. Maybe wait a bit.

[Asker]

It’s not that. It’s my age

[dustybiker]

Age is a number not a diagnosis. Woman of all ages have healthy kids. The more mature you are the better set your kids will be. When you are ready you will know.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

That’s entirely up to you and the person you choose to have a child with. No one can tell you it’s a good idea or a bad idea, because it all depends on how you view it.


Personally, I think it is a good idea for myself. I want children and I love children. I think it’s a good idea to have children because it is my decision. I believe that I will be a good mom, and I will continue to live a good, happy life with children and my partner.

[doe9de]

Neither. It all depends on the individuals situation. For one person it might be a wonderful idea, for another a bad one. If your thinking about having one focus on your current situation. Can you support a child financially and most importantly find the time to care for one then go ahead. If your struggling with bills right now and are short on time you may not be in a good place to have a child right now.

[Luckycharms12]

You need lot of money to have kid 24 7 care love and attention. If can do all that then go for it

[gabby100]

Having a idea you want something like a baby is a joint decision. If you are single and got pregnant , with no back up or money , it would be BAD. but if you are in a loving and secure relationship, hopefully married and a husband that will provide it would be GOOD..

[Emilyis]

i have two children and they can be a handful if you aren't ready for it. Don't just have a boy get you pregnant. make sure it is some one you love. remember it takes two people to make a baby, It's as much his child as it is your's.

[Wise4myage]

Good idea if your married and ready, otherwise no.