I have 2 kids my partner wants to have just 1 with me , is that enough or a good idea?

[Anonymous]

[SnakeBoop]

depends a lot more than just that

[lightbulb27]

What?

[Asker]

Is 1 kid enough?

[lightbulb27]

but you already have 2 kids? or are you talking in theory how many is enough?

[Asker]

I just don't know if I would get that family feeling with just 1 kid together but I do understand why it's probably more practical

[lightbulb27]

Ok that’s clear. We were kinda just talking about this. We have 2 kids from my wife and her x… none of my own. Ideally your guy honors your heart ❤️ but there is reality as two kids require lot of emotional support so you want good support around you. I think finance is one thing but manageable. More of issue is they are both needy and usually opposite personality so takes a lot of energy. Lot of marriages blow up under the stress load and change in needs. So be well prepared. I think two to three is right number. Hopefully all are healthy and just matter of identifying their uniqueness and raising them… and that’s enough. I know of family w two and one is special needs. That’s another level of hard for some families and in that case helps to have three or four who can help. Kids are as expensive as you want them to be but all they need is love of family support… reading a book w mom and doing project w dad is better than expensive online games. Hope that helps!

[Asker]

Thanks