Im a member of a friends group. We all know each other from high school many many years ago, even after finsihing high school we all grew apart and got distant for years but many years later we found each other again at high school reunions and from there we (some of the classmates not all) continued to see each other, and formed a small group of friends (only ladies)
. The times we had hanged out and gathered in the past (before the pandemic), with this group I have we usually went to a bar or we went to the house of one of those ladies who always was nicely invited us to her house to get together and have fun there talking, laughing etc. The group of friends had gone ( I had attended to all friends gatherings) to this friend house like 3 times already, she always liked us going there. She always opened her house for us always polite.
Anyway after the pandemic stroke, we only could hang out twice, one to the same bar we always go and the other one to this lady house but taht was in Nov 2020 and then Dec. 2020.
After taht we simply stopped seeing each other in person but we always say that after teh crisis finished or at least got better we had to resume socializing again. So the time went by to mid 2021 and these friends like dissapeared, noone texted to start planning anything again , total silence from these friends, something happened like they lost interest to see each other again. Me in a attempt to socialize again I stood up and text the ladies last year mid year and told them like "hey why dont we gather again it has been a while, lets set up a gathering". The friends some (not all) answered "Sure, lets hang out". Not all responded liek if they were interested. At the end it was pure blah blah from them and nothign ever was done. They all say they were interested but they did not the effort to follow up the times I reach out to them and try to set up anything. I try to reach out to them to organize anything
. The times we had hanged out and gathered in the past (before the pandemic), with this group I have we usually went to a bar or we went to the house of one of those ladies who always was nicely invited us to her house to get together and have fun there talking, laughing etc. The group of friends had gone ( I had attended to all friends gatherings) to this friend house like 3 times already, she always liked us going there. She always opened her house for us always polite.
Anyway after the pandemic stroke, we only could hang out twice, one to the same bar we always go and the other one to this lady house but taht was in Nov 2020 and then Dec. 2020.
After taht we simply stopped seeing each other in person but we always say that after teh crisis finished or at least got better we had to resume socializing again. So the time went by to mid 2021 and these friends like dissapeared, noone texted to start planning anything again , total silence from these friends, something happened like they lost interest to see each other again. Me in a attempt to socialize again I stood up and text the ladies last year mid year and told them like "hey why dont we gather again it has been a while, lets set up a gathering". The friends some (not all) answered "Sure, lets hang out". Not all responded liek if they were interested. At the end it was pure blah blah from them and nothign ever was done. They all say they were interested but they did not the effort to follow up the times I reach out to them and try to set up anything. I try to reach out to them to organize anything
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like 3 times in different months, noone answered me anything. Like I said something must had happened to them, they changed
Anyway, 3 of these friends gathered on Friday at the 50th birthday of a friend we all know in common (another classmate) The bday lady did not want to be included in our Friends chat group over Whatassp3 years ago but she did say that if we ever set up somethign let her know through her sister (also a classmate and she IS part of our friends group). I discovered through a
Anyway, 3 of these friends gathered on Friday at the 50th birthday of a friend we all know in common (another classmate) The bday lady did not want to be included in our Friends chat group over Whatassp3 years ago but she did say that if we ever set up somethign let her know through her sister (also a classmate and she IS part of our friends group). I discovered through a
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Facebook photo these 3 ladies of our friends group gathered in a bar to celebrate this other friend birthday because the sister and the bday lady invited them to attend. I was not invited and I dotn know why, and the lady the other friend who always had welcomed us into her house for gatherings in the past was not invited either. So rude from those other friends not inviting this friend to the birthday. How come they did that to us, especially the lady who had opened her house to all of us
