Is it normal that I hate spending time with certain family members and try to avoid them?

[Anonymous]

But at times I feel bad cos they're family, but I naturally get bad vibes around certain people.

Yes don't feel bad

No make more of an effort

[DavidRaul]

Lol its totally normal. I just have some too negative family members who feel jealous of your success. Its better to stay away from them. But if they think right for you and you don't feel like mingling with them, thats your choice.

[Asker]

Thats exactly how I feel, or they compare their lives to yours/look down on you at times

[DavidRaul]

Yeah true. Also somehow they gossip about your bank balance while they have empty bank accounts

[Noodle_fan]

if they have abusive toxic parents , of course it is normal

[Smashingdoozy]

Not normal but it's okay to not want to be around certain family. If they make you feel uncomfortable then you can't help that