Why do you think people choose to have a kids knowing that it’s going to take away from their personal enjoyment of life?

[Anonymous]

When you don’t have kids, in someways you’re still kind of a kid yourself because you can do what you want but with the freedom of adulthood. When you do have them then you have major responsibilities financially and otherwise.

[exitseven]

Yes, we hd them right away after we got married. I was not ready for it. I was 25 and hanging out with my friends and having fun. All of a sudden i had a wife and 3 kids and a house and I was working all the time. It was a big adjustment.

[Apple1996]

My enjoyment in life is my kids without them life would not be fun

[boggboss]

Because u get the enjoyment of having a kid and your enjoyment attaches to them

[Cubus]

If you believe that having kids would take away your joy then it means there's something wrong with that thing under your dome.