My dad had an affair with other Woman So he gave divorce to My Mom when I was 12 years old, My Mom lived with me and My 2 sisters, My Mom picked a job to make ends meet but in 2016 she got raped by her Boss and his friends, I was like 14 years old then and she could not do much due to her Poor financial situation, Mean while one of My older sister also got a job so it improved Financial situation at home !
Now I am doing My graduation but last Month A Guy from My younger sister's college drugged her and raped her, he took her pics too, We went to police but corrupt police had already taken bribe and didn't do much ! I tried to get help but it didn't work either... That Guy belong to a Political family and they are very Rich and Powerful here, They have Nexus with Police and criminals too... So Most likely he would get away with this ! Now I feel like very pathetic because when My Mom got raped I was just 14 years old and could not do anything and Now when My sister got raped, I could not do anything as they are very Powerful and influential ! Am I dumb and Timid Guy or they are too strong for me at this Time?
Guys, Am I dumb and Timid Guy or they are too strong for me at this Time ?
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It is hard to read that. I can only feel for you. Study law. Scraping for a positive, at least you won't grow up to be a rapist. Seeing the determent it causes to caring loving people around the victim. I can see that this causes a grief response. Disbelief/denial, anger, guilt, bartering, acceptance, healing. Seems you are in the guilt. It is useless in this case. But it is part of the process. As a man we want to have solutions. Women just want support and understanding. You don't need to "fix" this. you don't need to fix this to be a man. You are a man. You where there and supported your family when they needed you. That is a man. I think that your mom and sister want you to be a round a long time. You getting killed would greatly aggravate their pain. They would feel guilty. We all know where the real blame lies. It is not with you.
When it comes to crimes that affects directly one of our beloved ones, is not easy to say what you're gonna do to seek justice. From what I've read you live in a place with high crime rates.
I don't know from what country you are, the only thing I can say is that you need to move your mother and sister from such place. Do everything you can to move out (if there is a real possibility to do so). In case the possibility is 0, please encourage them to seek a mental health professional. If.. That's not a possibility, perhaps religion may help to deal with their trauma. Your support is crucial. Do not leave them alone.
Concentrate on your career. Be a support to your mother and sisters. Give them happiness by taking on responsibility at home (chores or financial support).
You need to take actions to start hiving them a good life. That I feel will be the best options right now.
You are not dumb or timid. If those people are as rich as you say, you are fighting a losing battle. Money is the root of all evil.
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@sparkie460 Yes They are very Rich and Powerful and Since they are involved in Politics so they have influence over police and Now corrupt police is reluctant to help us ! Also we are getting threat to get killed by their hired goons ! So I almost have given up !
I can only how hard it must be to have these terrible things happen and there seem like nothing you can do. You can try your best to protect them and that’s all you can do. Those guys will burn in hell I can garentee you that.
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