I Think I'm Leading Too Many Guys On?

[Anonymous]

I'm not trying to pat myself on the back right now, but I'm attractive and I've always had guys coming after me. But, I'm in a bit of a sticky situation. Three guys have been trying to get with me and sometimes I don't know when I flirt. It's just that they all think we're in some type of relationship.

Example: Guy 1 says after meeting once but we had been talking for a while (wHICH I THOUGHT WAS FRIENDly talk): I don't mind if you talk to other guys but don't cheat on me ya know lol

Guy 2 tries to flirt with me in Spanish. He then proceeds to tell me in Spanish on how he's so lucky to have me and how I'm an attractive girlfriend. (NOT gonna lie but I flirted a bit)

Guy 3 is just flirty in general, but is very protective of me when we go out, as friends. (don't know if he really counts)

I understand its the way I respond to them which is very innocent. I'm not exactly a hoe or anything but I don't exactly understand what I'm supposed to do. Please help.

[AleDeEurope]

If you don't wanna lead them on, stop flirting, or just talk to them to make things clear that there's nothing serious going on, maybe they're just playing the same game as you, and you think they actually believe you two are together, girls tend to do that a lot (I speak from experience). When you play the same game as them, they actually tend to take it seriously.

[Anonymous]

Its not right to date guys simultaneously. Its insensitive. It is unjust. Woman doing this are insensitive towards men. you are not buying Groceries to have option what you can cook today. You are dealing sorry "playing" with emotions.

[Asker]

Dude, you don't understand! I didn't even know I was in a relationship, like they made this up themselves!

[Opinion Owner]

I have experiences with a woman who was dating me and other 3 men simultaneously. I have told you my opinion and I stand with it.

[Opinion Owner]

FYI , I'm not your dude!

[mercykill]

What in the hell is going on in people's lives that they thing they're in a relationship without talking about it?

[MargaritaGold_]

You can flirt as much as you want. Those things just sort of come with the territory. You flirt enough for long enough then they'll think it's more than it is. But to answer your question, you're never flirting with too many people until you're exclusive with just one.

[MargaritaGold_]

Leading someone on is just another way to say the other person wasn't on the same page

[Kurodo]

Get yourself together for one, if you're not interested then make sure its clear on no uncertain terms that you are not dating and do not like them. Otherwise start dating one of them and make sure the other 2 figure out.

[Kayrod]

you can always stop talking about stuffs emotionally and sexual and stick to plane gentle humor. And also clear with those dudes DAT u not dating them and u enjoy their company as friends.

[hellacray]

Umm how about not lead them on? Cause right now you a ho.

[Asker]

Like you don't understand how fucking stupid I am. I'm not trying to lead them on in any situation, like man, I just want friends.

[hellacray]

Ok well stop flirting then. Do you flirt the same way with your female friends?

Men don't like games hun.

[Tezzy69]

Make your intentions clear, whether you want a relationship or just sex. What ever you decide don't mislead them into thinking you want ALL three of them as one will get badly hurt. x

[Anonymous]

Tell them explicitly that you're not interested, if you're really not interested. Say "no" very clearly. Seriously, use the word.

Tell them, in no uncertain terms, that you're not playing hard to get.

Teenage boys can be persistent. I know I was.

[Arya_Christ]

yeah a bit.. though I would not consider it leading on.. it is just being nice.. don't worry.. if anything happens in the future.. let your future self decide..

[rockyhardy669]

get them sudoku the one who finish it first is the one you need to reject it first and so on

[Pizzalover101]

Just be friendly but mention to 1s uoubdontbwant to date your seeing a nice guy if they font know you

[realperson02]

keep up the good job girl! 👏👏

[Shaakirrants]

IF YOU HAVE TO THINK ABOUT IT, YOU ARE!!!