Why is it more hurtful if a woman was also used for money?

Anonymous
My friend's female cousin finally dumped the user. She's single now and not ready to date yet. He wasn't just into the sex but also faked loved and also their initial friendship. She's also suing him because he's not paying back her $5000.

He was working at a supermarket meanwhile she was studying at a nursing medical school and was saving money for her own business. Their family is more wealthy than the guy's family too.

Obviously getting used hurts but she was more hurt that he used her for money and wealth too. She felt as if she wasn't even viewed as a person. She wasn't focusing too much on the sexual aspect. A few others stories where the guy wasn't just a jerk using her for sex and then leaving but also staying for the money... the woman got even more offended and hurt? Why?
Why is it more hurtful if a woman was also used for money?
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