Do you get insecure if people do not respond or shrug you off?

[jennifer_bloom]

Like if I text somebody and they take longer then usual to respond, it makes me wonder if we are still friends or if they are angry at me and coming from a Chinese background, we avoid discussing negative things so I will never flat out ask somebody if they are avoiding me if I suspect that they are. I will simply assume everything they do is intentional when they might just be distracted.

[iSlipKnot]

I used to get worried about text messages until it happened in person. I was sitting at a bar and someone told a story for poetry night. The guy sat next to me and I asked a simple follow-up question. He looked dead at me and looked away. Saw him again a few days later and he greeted everyone, looked at me, and turned his back. It's just really awkward haha.

[Dontaaaa]

Yes, sometimes, but it's not the end of the world.

[Blackcosmo]

If they use social media frequently, I'll wait for 3 days thinking maybe they're busy. After that I'll probably start thinking they're mad at me.

[FilmGuy93]

Eh... kind of. It really depends on how they act when we see each other in person.

[Baylayy]

I was before. But now I'm used to it. Especially friends, these days people talk for a while and then stop talking or end up ghosting

[Crankor]

I don't, but it does reflect on how I view them.

[legalboxers]

nope.. fuck people