My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend won't go away. I'm going insane.

[Anonymous]

Yeah they dated a while, and I understood some of the post-break up drama, but it's been almost 7 months since we've been in a relationship and a little over 8 months since they've been together.

She's spread rumors, lied about things he's said/done, still updates her Facebook about him, and still texts his friends and even texts his little sister (who just turned 11) and writes petty things like I miss your beautiful face and I'll always be your big sister, and all this nonesense on her Facebook wall. Like please, just please move on.

Someone please help me maintain my sanity. It's really driving me up a wall now.

[jes_sick_a]

wow I would go crazy in that position too! I went through it with my ex, his girlfriend was trying to break us up and would spread lies about me, the best thing you could do is just ignore everything she says, in fact, on Facebook talk about when you're hanging out with your boyfriend and take tons of pictures but pretend she doesn't exist. hang out with his little sister and get her to really like you, then not only will you have your man, you'll have his little sister as well which is always a plus. However, with his mom, mom's are way tougher. You're just going to have to show her your good side and be sweet and funny so she'll like you. But always ignore the ex girlfriend, because really, what's she going to do if you don't notice or care about what she says, you're the one with him, not her, and obviously nothing she's doing will change that, she'll give up just wait and see, best of luck:)

[Chewbobca]

This girl seems to have already established a relationship with your boyfriend's family and friends. How she interacts with them is something you, unfortunately, don't have a say in. Now if she is bad mouthing you in front of the family, that is a whole other issue. The Facebook issue is something easily solved. Block her, but from what I see you're afraid of how she'll react. You obviously don't owe this young woman ANYTHING and she is probably not your friend.You really shouldn't fear her reaction. If blocking her will cause extra stress there is a way to hide all posts that your boyfriend's ex, mom, and sister post. The next time you see a post from her go to the right hand corner of the post and left click the little blue 'x'. Options should show up, pick the one that suits you the best.

[Anonymous]

Wow that scary..why don't ya just get off of fb ya don't need people in ya's buisness anyways and.

[Asker]

it's all over his sister's and his step mom's too though. and I know she stalks my Facebook (she made a status about torturing herself by looking at our posts -___-) and I don't want her to be like SHE DELETED ME