People with a healthy family or relationship what's it like?

[soulbabe]

My family is TOXIC ☣️ and my relationship isn't really that healthy 🤕 and I just wanted to know what's it feel like to have a functional family life and a healthy relationship.

[Lynx122]

Ehm well my mom loves me so much and supports me a lot and it feels great. i think it has helped me a lot to deal with it when things are tough. My dad was not bad but he's not that attached. I had some conflicts with him but now it's alright. As for the impact on relationships I was bullied when I was 12 and I have autism so that made things difficult. Like I can socialize but I overthink a lot of stuff and I don't know how to deal with some things.

Also my sexuality is kinda weird like I thought I was asexual for a while but I'm not I'm somewhere in between Honestly I feel like I'm just starting my social journey or whatever you want to call it because in the past I didn't want to deal with people for the most part.

I think I can be happy a lot even when there's not much going on in my life and I don't have much to be proud of sometimes I do feel uncomfortable because I feel like people are judging me or I myself feel like I'm not doing enough but in general my internal wellbeing is very good even when the external life is very limited. I feel like I was like that from when I was born.

I wish I could say I have a great relationship as well but maybe it will still happen :)

[Wubs3000]

I'm sorry your situation is toxic :( I don't know how to explain really. I rarely get in fights with my family but if I do we take a break for a bit then talk it out and forgive. I can talk to my parents about anything and I don't hold any ill feelings towards them.

[exitseven]

I grew up in a dysfunctional family. When I got married and had my own family I tried to do the opposite of what my parents did. My kids were all happy, well adjusted , successful kids and I have a loving relationship with a wonderful wife. I used to think this was just on TV.

[Chaser3232]

A warm blanket on a soft couch, in your special someone arms. Then you a voice say, don’t worry I gotcha!

[_deeznuts]

toxic family ganggg

[EaterPeter]

Unicorns do not exist. Utopia ain't real.

[soulbabe]

I didn't say perfect I said functional as in you can have a family dinner without the cops being called

[Guy__]

Just today, for the first time ever, I heard someone discuss whether unicorns exist. Because the bible says "will you lock the unicorn in your barn" or some shit like it.

Please read my opinion and tell me whether I'm crazy
How Much of The Bible Should Be Part of American Laws? ↗

[EaterPeter]

I am sorry dear we all have idea of a perfect family I know you are not asking for a lot but sometimes it's just impossible for some families to even provide such thing

[EaterPeter]

So how many of you are there in family?

[soulbabe]

If you're asking direct as in siblings just me and my mom / dad. If we're talking cousins who got raised as siblings aunt's uncles and grandparents 18 if your counting family members I've never met or vagly remember seeing a few times like 230 + but my family is very toxic. Gas lighters, mental, physical , emotional , financial , animal , abuser's, manipulation and con artist rapists , addicts , thieves my family is as toxic as it get even have one in jail for attempted murder

[EaterPeter]

So back to your original question. I guess it's much better. Not the living hell the way you have.

[EaterPeter]

We all have our set of problems some have their hands full and some neck deep.