I love my sister's fiance, how do I forget him?

[Anonymous]

My sister and I are only 2 years apart (I'm 22 and she's 24). We meet him 3 years ago. I was flirting with him in the beginning and we were having a conversation. However, once he saw my sister, he started dating her instead. He chose her and well I can't do nothing but suffer in silence with my fantasy.

However I dream about him sometimes. I'm in love with him that at times I secret go to his workplace building and watch him for a couple minutes. I've been writing poems and romantic stories about him in my journal, imagining what it would've been like being with him, if he had chosen me instead of her. I want to forget him though. How do I forget him?

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Certain days I feel as if my sister took him away from me. We were having a good conversation and it got ruined when she walked in and introduced herself. Ever since then, he laid eyes on her and therefore chose her. I was ignored and just treated a friend or relative.

So I secretly follow him at times, not always.

[Anonymous]

What ethnicity are you, your sister, and her fiance?

[Asker]

My sister and I are Mexican-Americans and he's from Germany but has been raised in the US since he was 4 years old.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow, so two sexy Latinas and a White man?

[Asker]

Yes. Though we're also white in color just like our father. Our father is a white Mexican and mom is darker color.

[Opinion Owner]

That's hot, I always wanted to be a beautiful White man. Some of them really love the Latinas.
I'm Black and I mostly date trailer park trash White girls.

[Asker]

Whenever they ask about ethnicity whether on a standardized school exam, medical form or other, I always had trouble whether to replied hispanic or white since I fit both so many times I just said white.

If I may ask what do you like about hispanic/latina girls?

[Opinion Owner]

I like the skin contrast when I watch porn of sexy Latinas taking that Big Pink, Tan, or White Cock.
Some White men are handsome, and some Latinas are pretty so they go together well. I'm a goofy looking Black dude with big ears and a big nose, but my Snow Bunny trailer honeys want me.

[Iron_Man]

Get over your baby crush

[Asker]

I'm trying. I feel like he's very special and unique, that I'll never meet someone of that high quality. He's like a one of a kind and my sister took that away from me.

[Iron_Man]

You can’t take your sister‘s future husband away find Somebody that’s for you

[LimitedBenefits101]

Women are HILARIOUS.

[Asker]

but I've never fallen in love with anyone before... just him.
He's the one of a kind man that many women want; very attractive, my sister was his first, quality, likes helping the community, animal lover, a physician but yet is humble and decent, marriage-minded too. He's like a good, decent Adonis type, the kind of man hard to find.

[Asker]

He's like a very rare breed. The fact that I can NEVER have him sometimes is my sadness

[Zygum]

Not good, stop this, your sister will angry

[Asker]

Even though I'm not flirting with her man. He doesn't even know that I sometimes follow him at his workplace just to watch him for a few minutes and then leave. All my thoughts, imaginary adventures with him that I write on my journal and my fantasies are just myself.

[Zygum]

Ok, no problem then

[LazerBean]

Oy cringe

[Asker]

I can't help how I fell in love with. Yet this is my sadness, that I can only keep him as my fantasies and imagination.

[Anonymous]

Find yourself a lover.

[Asker]

I know but nowadays it's hard finding an attraction, quality guy. My sister has the nearly perfect guy that I'm shocked to be honest. He's like a one of a kind person you don't find in years.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you gotta do something

[Zygum]

No problem, you both keep him as your lover, if he agrees, lucky person have two willing girlfriends