How to get a older brother figure (or older sister)?

[bunnyboo364]

i’m sorta interested in having a friend dynamic of someone a bit older me who can help me in an older brother (sibling) dynamic when i get to college, how do i get that type of relationship with someone?

[RoulOB]

Take a look on your family, you may have older cousins.
Or a friend you had when you were younger.
Don't look much on the older age, they could be same age as you, but they think in different ways and help you.
A great friendship is what you're searching for.

But they may fall in love with you, I'm warning you 😅

[exitseven]

I don't know. Its not like you can take out an ad in the paper. Maybe in some activity you are interested in.

I was a fat kid and in 9th grade I got my parents to let me join a gym. There were 3 or 4 older guys that showed me the right way to work out. They were all into the lifestyle. These guys were the older brother I never had. When I got older they gave me advice about school, girls and cars and other stuff.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[wingattebaby16]

you have to make friends, and cultivate it...

or post an online ad.. lol.. be aware the guy might want to be more than a brother

or, you could talk to the college advisors and ask them for a program like that. I know they exist

[Rania05]

Inadvertently, I do get lots of this kind of friends, lol. Even if they were not the mature type of a girl is the little cute sister they'd unconsciously acts like older siblings in some moments.

[bean2k21]

I was in the youngest in my family, so I have no experience. I try to compensate for this by establishing relationships in which I am the dominate. Fortunately I had a strong father figure who made people submit to him for a living (law enforcement).

[Jamie05rhs]

I love being an older brother. You can ask me for advice, and I will help you out in any way I can. Fair warning, though: I will be brutally honest with you. I keep it real.

[Sparkie460]

You have a lot of older brothers and sisters right here on gag. We might not be in college with you but I'm sure you can dm any of us. I know you can dm me with any questions you may have. I'd answer any questions

[Jacobbbb]

Just look around for people. As you get into college you'll meet a lot of people older than you that would be more than willing to help you out

[TheMajesticKing777]

I'm not sure considering people nowadays have intentions

[Jamie05rhs]

That is true. You gotta make sure he doesn't have any conflicts of interest.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Indeed

[Levin]

Start talking to someone a bit older, I guess.

[Flower7]

You could join the BigBrotherBigSister program.

[RealMarek]

I think a lot of sororities assign new members an older “sister.”

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Just try making new friends and that may help you out.

[Iron_Man]

You have to befriend older people but make sure it’s just a brotherhood figure or a sisterhood figure only

[Iron_Man]

But you can do that when you’re 18

[ArtemisSilver]

I like the big bro vibe. Let me know if you ever need help.

[innerman]

This is something that just happens, you dnt sign up,

[Waldoe]

older brother? nope.. never... unless he is gay. Older sister, maybe

[JohnK123]

Lmao I’m almost ur age but u just have to find a really close friend

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just ask I've always wanted a little sister I'm gonna inbox you

[Avicenna]

You need to find a friend who‘s like that

[BHooper]

Im always down for that.

[jjj101010]

If u have any questions I’m happy to help