POLL- do you live with your parents or do you live alone?

[Sugar100]

I thought it was normal for young adults age 23-30 to move out? I’m hearing a lot of men 30 say they live with mom? i see on YouTube all these girls living alone in apartments & I thought in real life people live alone too? my parents are not proud that I live alone and independent. They will only be proud of me if I live with mom forever I’m 25 in 2 months?

[MCheetah]

I was stuck living at home until I was 26 due to the recession and having very little income. I live downtown with three roommates when I did move out, and I've been living on my own in South Korea for almost three years now.

There's nothing wrong with having to live with your parents as long as 1) you're making a conscious effort to try to find your own place, 2) you're at least helping out around the house, either with money or doing chores, and 3) you can move out at least before you hit 30, even if you have to eventually move back in. But yeah, if you're 30 and you've never left your parents house and you're not Asian, then something's wrong there.

Actually... Come to think of it, my cousin did just that! Lived with my grandmother in their 30s and never moved out! My grandmother died and they just took over the house and re-wrote the will. Kinda pathetic, when you think about it.

[Sugar100]

I don’t live with parents I live alone. I have said 100 times I live alone

[Sugar100]

Sorry
I got confused with another question I posted. Ignore my comment lol.

[Bolty44]

Some people move out even sooner then that some get kicked, but some would like to stay with their parents and family and see them grow old laugh and be happy, spending quality time with them instead of drinking with a stranger in bar... taking care of them is considered a thank you gift for giving you birth in some countries they always expect this. So do as you like don't care about society or your mom. You should stay with them but if you feel stuck or want freedom you are a free bird you should fly when you'd like but keep ties with them.

[Sugar100]

Yes but my parents don’t own a home so I cannot live with them. They r homeless. Dad lives in his car and mom lives in a strangers garage. My parents r divorced so it’s not nice to see them grow old wen my entire life it was heading parents fighting yelling I was scared as a child my dad was scary. They still fight so I’ll be miserable forever heading domestic violence. Also I’m
At age where I’m going to start my family like end next year so I cannot have my baby and still living with mom. Also she only wants live with me cuz she don’t want me be known as adult living alone. She wants me be known as baby living with mom

[Sugar100]

We fight daily even wen I visit her in my car she fights me and we don’t get along she talks shit and only wants see me to control me. The only reason she wants live with me is so I never have a. boyfriend and never have babies.

[Sugar100]

Also she wants live in a far city middle of. no where , I currently live in city where boyfriend lives. We have different dreams. Also she doesn’t deserve me live with her cuz wen I first moved out I offered her move with me & she laughed said u don’t make any business sales. I moved out and made good money from my business. Karma got her.

[Sugar100]

Parents have been angry I want save money for my future as they r jelaous and have no savings. How can I be happy live with my parents as they want me broke. no life no job no future? That’s messed up that’s y I’m not doing anything wrong by not living with them.

[Sugar100]

All adults move out only rich kids live with parents til they save money or immature people live with parents and want act like a baby never pay bills be spoiled leeching off them

[Sugar100]

Wen I have tired help my
Parents to find a place to live I’m
Told shut up by my mom
Or dad is bluffing laughing they don’t take me serious , they don’t deserve me live with them. Me n mom fight 24/7 to point I’m miserable crying. I’m
At peace living alone.

[Bolty44]

If you think alone is good then sure but you shouldn't keep the silly fights in mind let it go be a bigger person and help them now and then because you won't get parents ever again these are the only one's... mom's could feel robbed when children leave you are all she has in life she is just overly possessive you can help her with money and give a hug now and then... rich kids do get spoiled on parents money.. but there are people who's parents are poor or needs help and they keep their parents with them to take care of them!

[Sugar100]

I won’t live with domestic voilence ! Wtf y u want me live with domestic voilence, it ain’t few fights here and there! I can’t live with mom cuz she treats ne like shit! She has told me shut up! Or laughed said u don’t even make sales to move out, idc of u, I will stay here to buy my home and god punished her and I moved out and made good money from my business while she’s miserable broke still no home to buy!

[Sugar100]

U obviously take care of good parents if u r rich but my parents treat me like shit! They want me broke no job crying like a baby til I’m 50 no life have no Babies no boyfriend, they r bad parents 😓

[Sugar100]

Domestic voilence is not silly fights wtf is wrong with u!

[Bolty44]

I said forget about past and live however you want but support her with some money

[Sugar100]

I’m broke I can’t give her money

[Sugar100]

Only my brother is rich but he doesn’t help her as his wife is a gold digger and wants him only give money to her mom

[petitedollbabee]

I’ve heard that places like the UK and America, it’s normal for someone to not move out from their parents place until they’re in their late 20s or in their 30s. But here in NZ, most people move out at 18/19, some even move out when they’re 16. I moved out when I was 18 and I live with my partner now in our own place.

[Anonymous]

Buying a home and even just renting in general is quite expensive depending on where you live so living at home to a later age is beneficial for some as it allows them to save enough to buy a home for themselves. Some are still at home because they help care for the parent

[Sugar100]

My
Parents r homeless so living with them isn’t an option also they r divorced and I grew up with domestic violence so that ain’t an option to live with them together also it’s messed up they aren’t proud of me living alone independent & that things r going well for me. They r only proud if I live forver with mom. It’s sad cuz I have my own life now & they r selfish. I plan have a baby soon maybe end next year ready settle down. My dads retiring and will move to Mexico soon and mom has called me stupid, or made fun of me saying hahaha how u will rent a studio apartment if u make no sales from your business. Since last year I moved out and made good money from my business & she is homeless gets mad wen I tell her to rent a apartment she doesn’t want pay rent she loves being kicked out of peoples rooms or garages, she doesn’t want pay deposit to move in or run her credit. She only wants a huge mansion & gets angry wen I try give advice

[Sugar100]

She is homeless no job , she used to have $20,000 and still makes excuses to not buy a home or use that money to pay rent for 2 years she just tells me to shut up .

[Sugar100]

But my boyfriend lives with mom I think they both own the house and he has a bedroom plus living room
So like a studio inside thier home or maybe it’s a second living room like a den.

[Opinion Owner]

I am so sorry to hear about the things your Mum and Dad are saying and doing. They should be proud of you for being independent and having a job that allows you to make good money. I don't know you and I am proud of you.

[Sugar100]

Since mom is homeless they want me have no futur just live with mom so she lives off of me pay zero rent. She just lives in random peoples rooms at the moment.

[hahahmm]

Oh, there's a lot of fakers on Youtube. One of the funny things on Kevin Samuel's old show was all of the women who would come on and claim that they make six figures in jobs/career positions where they'd be lucky to be making $40-$60k.

Anyhow society is all messed up right now. People can do what they think is best and end up in very bad situations 5-10 years down the road. That was less likely the case the further back in time we look.

I remember hearing about a case where a guy lived at home with his parents forever & never left... never got a career or even a job. Just free loading. So when he was 40s they both died and he inherited their house BUT he was too broke to pay the taxes so eventually the house got grabbed by the government and he was whining about how unfair it was. He only had 40 years to get his sh*t together.

[mobiusforniner]

Lol im mid 30s, married with kids and my parents are upset i live independently. Weird, because for the first 18 years of my life they kept telling me im a loser if I dont make it on my own. Now im a loser for not being home to take care of them...

Honestly the boomer generation, i feel, is largely responsible for the messed up mental anguish put upon millennials.

[Sugar100]

My parents r same angry I’m idependent they ar e jelaous and want me broke no jobs no money no savings just living with mom Never having kids no life no boyfriend

[mobiusforniner]

Right? My dad often tells me i dont deserve to be happy... like wtf is wrong with our parents generation? So angry

[Sugar100]

I always grew up seeing in movies the adults move out by 18

[Sugar100]

I think my parents r jelaous of me As they wasted life doing nothing

[HaveNoName]

I do not come from a culture where 18 means move out of parents' home. I eqs with them till 30+ when i had to leave the country. I have no regrets having lived with them and if circumstances permitted, I would go back to them at this old age where they need support.

[Sugar100]

But do u have divorced parents? Living with parents isn’t an option for me as I grew up with domestic voilence, there’s no way I will continue be living with parents fighting screaming daily ever again. I would be scared whole life seeing domestic voilence. U must have a perfect family & parents married no abuse or voilent dad. Also my parents r homeless so only rich kids stay til 30 to live with parents. Also I’m
Settled down in life at 25 so I can’t be pregnant living at moms house. I’m moving next year to a big apartment to raise my baby there.

[HaveNoName]

Thank God no messed up situation in the family. Again, a lot to do with culture.

[Adam_INTJ]

I live at home. But I have a unique situation.

I just got my bachelor's degree and have not yet started my first job. I also have some medical limitations that make moving out more complicated. I think most guys should try to move out by my age.

[TransAm85]

I moved out when I was about 21. I couldn't take my mother anymore! After I lost my job when I was 24, I started stripping/hooking just so I could stay at the place I was renting!

[Sugar100]

Why u cudnt take your mom?

[Sugar100]

I can’t live with parents as they r Divorced I won’t be 40 years old and hearing domestic violence forever hearing parnets fight & me being scared. Also they have called me stupid or say shut up wen I gave advice for them to find a place to live. Also only reason mom wants live with me is so she can call me a baby living with mom & not women adult living alone. She wants me have no savings be broke no business no job , & no boyfriend and never have sex. That is messed up I’m
25 and ready settle down next year.

[Sugar100]

I can’t feel bad for her being homeless living in a garage cuz how bad she treated me. Also the first time I moved out at 23 I offered her to come and she laughed said u don’t even make sales. I moved out and made good money from business sales. Karma got her back for being a bitch.

[Sugar100]

😞 they don’t deserve me Live with them

[TransAm85]

My parents divorced when I was about 5 years old and I didn't get to know my dad til about 10 years ago but he just died. I totally understand what u r saying about the criticism. My mom took out a lot of problems out on me and tried to control everything I did as I got older, so I just rebelled. Please don't do the stupid shit I did, stripping & hooking, heck no! 😤 U r still young and can even go back to school if u wna do something different. I know my mom didn't mean to treat me that way, but it still hurts. I am sure the same goes for ur Mom. She is just very upset w/herself, but she has no right to take it out on u.

[Sugar100]

Yes I think my parents envy are jealous of me as they did nothing in their life and. now old homeless. I get scared to visit them as mom will just complain that I’m
Not living with her. It’s sad cuz I have my own dreams
I decorate my home how I want. They r selfish as im settled down almost in life and how I’ll have a baby if im living with mom forever? My mom wants control me too since she has no boyfriend no sex she doesn’t want me to live alone so I have no boyfriend never have sex just have no future

[Sugar100]

I think the people that live with parents don’t have domestic violence. I grew up with parents fighting and I was scared daily , u think I won’t continue til I’m old living with domestic voielence forever?

[Apple1996]

I live with my husband and kids about 10 hours away from any family. My parents kicked me out at 18 so living with them isn't even a option for me

[convo_king89]

I wonder if it’s cuz u got knocked up at 17 and u moved in with ur boyfriend.

[Apple1996]

@convo_king89 basically yeah but my parents weren't allowing him in the house so it was for the best that they kicked me out.

[Sugar100]

I want have a baby at age 25-26 not married tho. But 17 is too young be pregnant at that age I barley was graduating highschool! Barley getting my first job

[convo_king89]

That’s you find a guy to take of you while you give him pussy as a thank you.

[Apple1996]

Yeah I was still in high-school but graduated a year early so I became a stay at home mom as soon as my son was born. It definitely wasn't too early at all to start my family I was happy that I did

[Apple1996]

@convo_king89 my guy didn't start taking care of me till much later but paid off in the long run

[convo_king89]

So u moved in with his parents?

[Apple1996]

@convo_king89 for a few months when my parents first kicked me out but after that we got our own place

[Apple1996]

@convo_king89 the trade off was that I could live there for free but would have to be a full time baby sitter for my little bro in laws. So I definitely wanted to leave there fast too

[Sugar100]

@convo_king89 wdym That’s you find a guy to take of you while you give him pussy as a thank you? R u talking to me or the other girl?

[Sugar100]

How did u buy stuff for the baby tho? Did u have a job at 17?

[Apple1996]

Nah neither me or my husband had a job at that time. Babies really don't need much. I had a baby shower so getting stuff at the beginning wasn't a issue. a lot of people also gave me used baby gear. My husband got a job when our son was 9 months so after that we just got whatever we needed but for the most part we were saving everything he made.

[convo_king89]

Yep I was talking to you and getting fucked at 17 which u think is too young.

[convo_king89]

@Sugar100 @Apple1996 at 18 if they kick you out you really only have three options go to college, enlist in the military and get a job that you can live off of.

A lot of jobs they don’t pay enough to live off off like minimum wage or if you live in expensive are. Gotta share a room with a few people.

[justEric]

I started living alone at 22 and nowadays I live with my girlfriend, but the economical situation got worse for a lot of people because of COVID, young adults now are struggling more

[Sugar100]

But since all men say they live with their mom how they start life with their gfs and have babies? I don’t get it? If the guys r forever with their moms?

[justEric]

They can still have girlfriends and make babies living with their mom

[Sugar100]

Wtf 🤣🤣

[LazerBean]

My husband and I lived with our parents till we got married, then moved into our house. So neither of us have ever lived alone.

[Sugar100]

You must have a perfect fmaily as my parents r divorced there is no way I will be living with them forver hearing domestic violence and parents fighting so scary 😓 my life was seeing domestic voilence so that’s y I’m glad I’m at peace now in my studio it’s quiet

[Sugar100]

My parents fight daily and as a child it would be scary seeing my dad crazy& abusive , I don’t deserve continue seeing hearing that now at 25 plus I plan on having a baby next year and move to apartment

[Engizisyoncucellat]

I just wanted to do my job and living alone but employers in my country genereally dont have ethic instincts. So i left my job and willing to return into my parents house

[Sugar100]

How do u take care of your girlfriend and baby? Or u r single?

[SecretsofKB]

My partner and I just bought our first house together. I haven't lived with my parents since my second year of college so I was 20.

[God_of_Thunder]

I moved out at 17, and have been living either on my own, or with a SO, ever since.

[xJayleenx]

Im 21 i live with my parents and my boyfriend is 25 and he lives with his parents. Everything is so expensive nowadays so we can’t move out without saving

[Sugar100]

Yea but u must have healthy parents cuz I grew up living with domestic voilence seeing and hearing parents fight daily I would be scared and cry daily. That’s y I’m happy living alone in peace, I can’t live with parents and continue seeing domestic voilence and dad abusing my mom. Also my parents r homeless they don’t own a home. I think only rich kids say they live with their parents as thier parents r rich own homes. That’s y they don’t move out

[xJayleenx]

Im sorry my parents aren’t exactly the healthiest they are only together for us they say but there’s no domestic violence just verbal abuse

[Sugar100]

I don't know kids can live with abusive parents forever

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for me I live alone & sometimes my imaginary friends visit. Hahaha.

[bubblegunnn]

Shoot.. hope they r not scary

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@bubblegunnn Scary there are not but if any one else sees them they are privileged.

[AviatorTom]

I lived with my parents until I turned 20, then I moved out and lived on my own.

[Losingmyreligion99]

I’m still living with my parents, much to my own dismay.

[clampfan101]

I couldn’t get a job until very recently due to epilepsy, so I’m still working on getting my own place.

[OnTheLevel]

I moved out when I graduated from college. My father moved back into my house after my mom passed and lived with my family until he passed.

[Sugar100]

What do u think as my parents say they aren’t proud of me as I live alone independent? They r only proud if I’m a baby no jobs just living forever with mom? How I’ll start my family soon have baby living forever with mom? Lol seriously. I think they r messed up 

[OnTheLevel]

I think you need to stop living for your parents' approval and start focusing on your own quality of life.

[Sugar100]

It’s cuz wen I visit them they talk of how they aren’t proud of me cuz I’m successful that’s y I keep bringing this up.

[Sugar100]

Same topic comes up each time I visit them. Also they r homeless so I visit them like in a car or restaraunt

[DancingQueen16]

Even though I'm 18 and starting college in a few days I still live with my mom

[AsaKyo]

I don't have enough money to move out right now, so I have no choice

[Anonymous]

I move away from my parents when I was 12. I lost all contact with them by the time I was 16.

[collie22]

i'm 21 and i live with my Dad and brother :)

[Noodle_fan]

live alone since 2008 , so it is already 14 years

[Fuentes]

No I don't and have not lived with my parents since 23 when I came back then moved again

[Anonymous]

I left at 30 but back again after 20 years for financial reasons and not with mom

[Guy13]

By my lonesome

[Guy13]

What about you ⁉️

[Sugar100]

I live alone but since it’s a studio I don’t pay bills

[Guy13]

I only have basic bills. House is paid for…. before end of year. Must be nice to have no expense ‼️

[Sugar100]

What do u think as my parents say they aren’t proud of me as I live alone independent? They r only proud if I’m a baby no jobs just living forever with mom? How I’ll start my family soon have baby living forever with mom? Lol seriously. I think they r messed up 

[Guy13]

Everyone has different vision for sure…

[ZS007]

with my parents

[exitseven]

I live with my wife.

[SushiSxnpai]

I moved out as soon as I could.

[Subarugirl]

I moved out at 19

[AngelOfLight258]

I live with my sister (we're roommates).

[Emma_Walker]

I live alone

[Sugar100]

What do u think as my parents say they aren’t proud of me as I live alone independent? They r only proud if I’m a baby no jobs just living forever with mom? How I’ll start my family soon have baby living forever with mom? Lol seriously. I think they r messed up 😞

[LavLavLuv]

I live alone