POLL-Do your parents stalk your as you moved out and live alone? Do you have privacy living alone?

[Anonymous]

I moved out since end 2022 at age 23. I’ll be 25 next month and have hid my adress from parents 7 months but now they finally got my new address. I live in a studio home & my parents are the type to stalk me & wait for me outside my sfudio to see me or knock on owners door to allow enter my studio. They aren’t proud of me living alone they don’t want me be independent. They get mad I have job business & want save money. We have fought before to point of me crying as they were mad I began driving & had a car. They want me forever have dad giving me rides & control me. They are angry I have a boyfriend & never want me live with boyfriend or start life together or have kids. They refuse give me back my spare car keys so they can drive my car wenever they want at my new adress. They spy on me & don’t own a home they live in the car & no job. Dad will retire now but still I feel scared & stress as I feel I can’t live my life. I just moved here & not ready financially to move out yet. I would only move out when I’m pregnant and want start my family but would need hide from them in new city.

[Kaneki05]

My mum probably will stalk me she's a freak. This morning she had a rant at me about needing to know what time I'll be home tomarrow because I am staying at my dad's after going to a gig.
I am just here saying I'll be back tomorrow when I wanna be.
But nope apparently an adult which I am cannot decide when to come home by themselves. Even a teen can do that tbh ya know with reasonable expectation of before it gets late aka curfew hours.. But nope not I.

My response was do you think my best friend who lives by himself has his mother knowing where he is 24/7 and been really worried when he goes out on a weekend with his mates to a club.
The answer is no. Now stop babying me just cause I still live here don't mean I am still a kid.
Now my dad on the other had exact opposite he knows I am rational and safe and wouldn't worry.

[20yearsolder]

It's time for you to stand up for yourself, I don't want you here. Do not show up uninvited. I'm going to tell the property owner that you have no rights in my apartment. You do not pay my rent. Do not allow them to enter my apartment. You call before you show up. If you show up unannounced you are not allowed in. If you don't like these rules then I don't want to see you anymore at all. You have to respect my privacy

[Asker]

I have said thus million of times and they don’t listen, they want control me and my life they don’t want me to have a life or future

[Asker]

I already told my owner to not allow parents in my studio without my permission.

[Asker]

They r the type to not care what u say or listen. They cannot stand me having control so they don’t listen to any word and say and they have to win

[Asker]

Blocking them doesn’t help.

[Methis]

My parents don't even know own what country I'm in.

[Anonymous]

I talk to my several times a day but she doesn't stalk me.

[Opinion Owner]

*My mom

[Jamie05rhs]

Man; I feel ya. That must be rough.