Why are some people so opinionated about how their family and relatives should live?

[Anonymous]

Every time I come to visit my aunt, she's always spewing some sh*t about why I don't have a boyfriend and that I need one because my other cousins have one. I'm 18, and I know countless people my age who aren't interested in dating just yet. I don't know why it matters so much to her, a grown woman. And she's always talking about how I dress "too tomboy-ish" and that I need to dress more girly. Like wtf? I'm so sick of her sh*t.

[Guy13]

Don't you know she loves you and has your best interest at heart? Have you ever asked her to back off?