The other thing she's made a big issue of, is me doing things without the little one. She's asked me if I've gone out and I've then explained my day. Then huffed and said no I mean you, what have you done. I personally don't get it, I've chosen to have a kid, I could have aborted her, but I couldn't go through with it, and I thank myself every day as I'd have regretted it for the rest of my life. But I'm perfectly fine with the life I have, a part of me envies the life of going about things traditionally with a lovely guy and everything. But I made my bed, now it's time to continue living my life. Going out without my daughter almost seems weird, since she's been born I've done it maybe four/five times. The times I don't see her when she's awake is when I'm working and she's at childcare.
Then again I know she wouldn't understand as she's the type to go to spas weekly and 3-6 holidays a year with many UK weekends out, and take outs several times a week. Shows and concerts every month or two. She also doesn't have kids herself.
Is it wrong to drop hours or to not care about doing things away from my child. Soon I'm going to take us to a festival and have a tent camping together.