So I have recently learned that I am possibly married to a narcissist, so pretty much I have come to notice a lot of things, like how my wife may be psychopathic, narcissistic and possibly delusional but I don't know I'm not a doctor and my diagnosis may be wrong.
Anyway it is so easy to spot now and any time she is doing something shady... let's start with how she is always on her phone actually and most of the time she acts so annoyed to be bothered and that is from our younger son and myself, and if I say well when will you not be busy? And that's when she says "your always" on your phone and I'll say why are you telling me I'm always on my phone we are just asking when you will not be busy? And she will stay in her phone.
I can wait and wait and ask 15 minutes or 30 minutes later and she will uhg... what dude? Well nevermind if it's gonna upset you I'll wait til later, she'll be like I'm sorry dude, you are always on your phone when I try talking to you... and I'll say their you go again with the "You always" trying to shift the blame to me, and she'll be like no I don't and ill be like yes you do and she'll say something like dude your really making me mad right now, I say I'm sorry your getting so angry but I'm just trying to understand and, and then she will say something like well you never know when to shut up or just leave me alone for a minute dude, you make me so mad I don't wanna talk or I don't want to fight dude, and so I'm like I'm not trying to fight , she says why are you yelling? and so I'm say the only one yelling right now is you, your getting mad and your fighting not me, at this point she will say something like "okay bet" and then she'll get on her phone and I don't know even... maybe starts texting people trying to get somebody to feel sorry for her, I say this because I've noticed through the last 7 years that she likes to tell people bits and pieces of the story and in a way that makes her look like poor innocent me
Anyway it is so easy to spot now and any time she is doing something shady... let's start with how she is always on her phone actually and most of the time she acts so annoyed to be bothered and that is from our younger son and myself, and if I say well when will you not be busy? And that's when she says "your always" on your phone and I'll say why are you telling me I'm always on my phone we are just asking when you will not be busy? And she will stay in her phone.
I can wait and wait and ask 15 minutes or 30 minutes later and she will uhg... what dude? Well nevermind if it's gonna upset you I'll wait til later, she'll be like I'm sorry dude, you are always on your phone when I try talking to you... and I'll say their you go again with the "You always" trying to shift the blame to me, and she'll be like no I don't and ill be like yes you do and she'll say something like dude your really making me mad right now, I say I'm sorry your getting so angry but I'm just trying to understand and, and then she will say something like well you never know when to shut up or just leave me alone for a minute dude, you make me so mad I don't wanna talk or I don't want to fight dude, and so I'm like I'm not trying to fight , she says why are you yelling? and so I'm say the only one yelling right now is you, your getting mad and your fighting not me, at this point she will say something like "okay bet" and then she'll get on her phone and I don't know even... maybe starts texting people trying to get somebody to feel sorry for her, I say this because I've noticed through the last 7 years that she likes to tell people bits and pieces of the story and in a way that makes her look like poor innocent me
