Tell me, how do you get out of bed knowing circumstances are actual sh* and you can't see the light?

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Sure, I know there's a light in the darkness. But the thing is the situation I'm in (lost my car, temporarily/definitely dead, can't afford another, down to one check instead of two) it's hard to see. I'm not going to sit in my closet and just cry about it but this is hard. Hard to know things will get better but it seems no one can help you. Your family would love to help but they all have their own problems and 2 of them you don't know on a personal level and they don't know you. So that makes me wonder, how do you guys deal with the darkness when you know there's a light but you can't see it anytime soon?

Sandeeppingping · Accepted Answer

Sorry for the situation you're in, just know this, the most meaningful times of our life are when we suffer the most, I was a 17 year old spoiled soft kid when I moved out, I contemplated it all, dying of starvation not knowing what to do with dirty clothes, maybe going back home and admitting I was a loser once and for all, but no, I kept saying fuck it, that's what got me out of bed, literally my ego, not wanting my family to see me like that, I imagined my enemies seeing me as the same guy from 5 years ago, how could I not get out of bed? I was never more constantly stressed in my life, but now 3 years later I see it as the best thing that ever happened to me, So yes you're in a shitty situation but you'll come back stronger from it

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I always put things in perspective...

there's plenty and many others who are doing a lot more than me and more difficult as well, and they are also doing it for much more less... while they're troubled with so much more

and soon enough, I don't feel like complaining that much about my own situation

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

I have those who rely on me. Without them I'd likely have clocked out by now.

SnowedIn · Answer

I am sorry for what you're going through. I don't have a great or even good answer other than to say that you just do. Get out of bed, make coffee, enjoy the sunrise. Hug your kids/friends/family/cat/whatever and put one foot in front of the other. I wish you all the best.

Havthrills · Answer

Set a goal and work on figuring out how to achieve that goal. Getting a car is easy, but the rates are expensive. Check on fb or Craigslist. There might be a great deal on a car or ask around. It sucks cause usually people don't have the money just laying around.

Everything always works out. It'll happen. Maybe ask on here for someone to buy you a car. Lol

AndrésC64 · Answer

I'm sorry that you're going through that situation, and that it can be extremely difficult. I know it sounds cliche, but I think you really just have to take it one day at a time. Power through it the best you can. Unfortunately, it sounds like you don't really have much of a choice. Good luck.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Everytime I've ever been in situations like that, I got through them by finding some small thing to enjoy and digging into it.

stark04 · Answer

How to get yourself out of all the problems? Focus on solution instead of problem, One day at a time.

EaterPeter · Answer

Slowly but surely drag my arse out of the bad whining or whatever sound I can make

msc545 · Answer

I get up and find it.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Care to elaborate? What car issues.

Anonymous · Answer

i know where everything is lol

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