Hi wasn’t sure what to put but basically I been invited to a family funeral on my birthday? should I go?

[Anonymous]

Basically a family member auntie who haven’t since I was 4 years old am now 31 years has passed away. Been asked if I want to go. But it on my birthday.
I feel rude if I don’t go and selfish for not going. Plus don’t really wanna let my brother go on his own he 36.

[devilish-cutie]

do what you wanna do, if she was not that important to you its ok not to go

[Guy13]

If you were close to that family member then you should definitely go.