Cutting off toxic people / family members?

[Anonymous]

It's to the point, I don't care about my family members they are toxic narcissistic people. They want me to care and I don't.. I created boundaries between them and I where there'sno emotional connection between them and I? They are sick and dying based on observation. Am I wrong for not caring about them? I want no chance of rekindling or reconciliation with them moving forward. I'm deemed to be the black sheep of the family. My mother and grandmother are both evil and toxic and I suffered a lot of emotional, verbal, and mental abuse by them both.

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They will not have access to my mate or children sadly and about to lose grandparent access.

[Iron_Man]

This is extremely sad and your children also get influenced by your decision. Think about this very seriously

[Asker]

And? My children aren't going to be around abusive and toxic people.. my grandmother and mother deserves whatever they get

[Iron_Man]

Why don’t you take this to family counseling and all of you go together and fix this conflict. Right now you’re just very angry

[Asker]

I already gave it to God I don't deal with toxic and abusive people.. both of them are in bad shape wishing ill on me and they see the doctors more then I do.

[Iron_Man]

Pray about it I’m glad that you’re a Christian girl

[Asker]

Family counseling for abusive people lol toxic people don't think their the problem. What they need is God and clearly they're fake Christians ✝️

[Asker]

God is already punishing them it's out my hands. Yeah they need counseling and God.

[Iron_Man]

You have to have hope and be positive and make an effort go to church with your relatives and take it to a Christian counselor if you don’t make an effort nothing happens

[Asker]

What's extremely sad is they think their behavior is normal and it's not their so old and ignorant I don't wish ill on people they do it to themselves. One way or another karna will show up. My family treats me like shyt and you want me to sympathize with abusers..

[Iron_Man]

Go with them and make an effort swallow your pride

[Asker]

Iron Man I don't care about my mom and grandmother this abuse has been going on with them since I was a little girl. There's no hope for them or changing them. They don't believe in God their fake Christians who mock God.

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that I’m just trying to help you guys out this must be recently, let it pass for a while but not to long and then try to fix it

[Iron_Man]

I didn’t realize it’s been going on that long I’m sorry to hear that

[Asker]

My family is rotten , evil, narcissistic people used by Satan. They're demons for sure...

[Asker]

God is going to take care of them... everyone who mistreated me.. evil people deserve whatever they get

[Iron_Man]

I’m so sorry to hear that

[Asker]

God has a way to rid these fake believers

[Asker]

I keep my distance from my family their fake Christians not true believers of God. Narcissistic too. Including my niece

[Asker]

Demonic - demons 😈

[Mynameisbobby]

Been there! Don't blame you at all for your decision 💯

[Asker]

Thanks ❤️ 😊