My Boyfriend hates my Parents. In fact he almost left me at the start of our relationship, 4 years ago because of them. He has his reasons and tbf they are valid.
They neglected me in childhood, with my food and nutrition and hygiene needs.
My Mother forced me to see the man she was seeing behind my dad's back. An I had to be quiet.
They did little to nothing when i was in an abusive relationship.
When i got ill all through my 20s with agoraphobia, physical health issues. They wasn't really bothered an branded me an attention seeker.
They have split personalities, shout at me all the time and verbally abusive.
My Boyfriend wants me to focus on myself and then move in with him. But he has stated he wants nothing to do with any of my family. He's told his Dad half the story and he feels I should of been put into care.
Not to mention my Mother has restricted my independence purposely because she wanted me to stay a child.
I'm now stuck on heart medication through the screaming an shouting.
Should I do as my boyfriend feels, I should and cut them all off. Or maintain distance?
They neglected me in childhood, with my food and nutrition and hygiene needs.
My Mother forced me to see the man she was seeing behind my dad's back. An I had to be quiet.
They did little to nothing when i was in an abusive relationship.
When i got ill all through my 20s with agoraphobia, physical health issues. They wasn't really bothered an branded me an attention seeker.
They have split personalities, shout at me all the time and verbally abusive.
My Boyfriend wants me to focus on myself and then move in with him. But he has stated he wants nothing to do with any of my family. He's told his Dad half the story and he feels I should of been put into care.
Not to mention my Mother has restricted my independence purposely because she wanted me to stay a child.
I'm now stuck on heart medication through the screaming an shouting.
Should I do as my boyfriend feels, I should and cut them all off. Or maintain distance?
