Im middle easternen girl and im facing huge racism from my friends and this is leading insecurity on me, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I'm iraqi and arabic descended girl and I'm going to university. I was born and raise in out of middle east. My friends are discriminating me. Like they act friendly but they have kind of secret racism and sometimes they use words which are insulting me and my kinds. Like "middle easternen rats". In the other hand most of guys are nice and kind to me and friendly. Not all girls are like that but the ones im hanging are kinda like this. Should I talk with them about this or move on?

[ohsheeT]

I am so sorry that you have to go through this anybody that ever put anybody else down for any reason you have to look at them and understand why is it because they think they're better than everybody else if that's the case they're wrong if they're doing it because they like to follow each other somebody's doing it so they're going to do it that just makes them even more wrong these people are not your friends if they create drama if they're ignorant you don't want them as friends anyway like I said I'm so sorry that you got to go through this one day I hope the whole world would become one and this would never happen but it seems like our parents the people we look up to are not teaching anybody anything anymore kids are all followers nowadays I kind of look at it like this is that you are the better person of all of them because you are the one that is living it and have to understand it and you are the one that now has to make the choice are you going to be just like them or are you going to be different this is your moment that you need to make a choice on who you really are we get to choose who we want to be in life by the things we say and do your friends have clearly chosen who they want to be they want to be ignorant and they want to be followers I hope you don't follow that same path

[worldscolide]

If they are doing that to you they aren't your friends.

[Anonymous]

the moment someone insults you or your culture is when you should move on from them. asap!

[Lovearabgirls]

I’m a non muslim man and I love muslim and Arab girls. I’ve dated many Arab girls and was married to one. Also my current girlfriend is Arab. So trust me many men love Arab girls here

[Kuroz090]

Stop being friends with them and tell them directly that you don't appreciate them being racist.

[Anonymous]

So other girls are mean to you? Haven't you said that your feelings are hurt

[Asker]

I didn't say that straightforward but I meant that and I think now they don't like me more...

[Opinion Owner]

Why what is their reason

[Asker]

They said things which are humiliating middle easternen people and I defend middle easternen people. So they meant things like "ignorant, subhuman" referring to middle easternen people including me...

[Opinion Owner]

Can you find other friends?

[Opinion Owner]

what are the guys from you get along with?

[Asker]

I can I already have, but it just hurt me cause I was loving them..

[Asker]

Guys pretty much find me sweet and kind.

[Opinion Owner]

You get along with most guys?

[Opinion Owner]

what mean and hurtful things did they say

[Asker]

I mean I don't go deep chats with them but most of them think that I'm kind.

[Asker]

I dont want to expose in comments here. If you leave your username I will tell in there

[Opinion Owner]

Hi are you still here?

[Opinion Owner]

I leave my usernamne if you are still here so you can tell more

[SmokinAces2000]

Why are you still friends with them

[JohnK123]

Move on duh