I quit my job over the summer because of harassment issues. Before you ask, I thought about reporting it, but the guys involved already make their own lives miserable. I couldn't possible make it worse, so I left them as they were. I've been in therapy for it and finally being to accept that I didn't do anything wrong by leaving.
Last night, I got into a fight with my mom because she moved my hair into a different place. Now this is important: I have curly hair. The type of curly hair that cannot be moved once it's set or it sticks out like a sore thumb. She knows this and did it anyway. I got mad at her as I had an online job interview that was about to start. I asked her why she did that and she said, "because I thought it looked funny." I blew up at her as this meeting is important and now I have, what looks like a hair extension, hanging in front my of face.
After the meeting, I told her I was sorry for blowing up right away, but asked her (for the millionth time) to please not touch my hair unless she asks first. Then she asks me if I got this mad while I was working, saying "I know what they did was wrong, but maybe you started it." I blew up at her again, saying they had treated me like scum for three years. I had asked them time and time again if I did/said/if they heard something and they kept telling me no yet continued to treat me like crap. I did absolutely nothing wrong except not reporting it sooner. And she just kept saying, "I know, but..."
My aunt tells me I am being too emotional and I am wondering if she is right. It just feels like my mom doesn't respect me and always blames me in situations.
It's been almost 24 hours and we're barley on speaking terms. She tried to "make up" I guess by packing snacks in my bag and filling my flask up with water before I left for class. But maybe I am wrong, I want an apology from her. What she said hurt really bad and no granola bar is going to fix what she said.
