Grow a backbone and tell them the reason why you're unfulfilled in the relationship.
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You just. Tell them how you feel and sometimes cut people out of your life. They aren’t entitled
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It can be impossible to change someone who is needy. Noy so much if their neediness is temporary as if going through an illness or a temporary life situation. If someone has a needy personality- i. e seems to rely on you to make them complete it will always be needy. Carl Jung called the maturation process "individuation" and described it as a personality that is whole and voluntarily chooses to be in a relationship but some people either are- or feel that they are insufficient by themselves and need someone else to make them complete. If it is a basic personality trait you can suggest that person seek therapy and to be candid with therapist about inability to feel whole w/o you or someone providing the same thing you are. In some cases such as a physical disability that happened by random fate or instanccees where on memmber of a couple has traditionally provided the financial needs of the relationship while the other party did an agreed upon role like child rearing where it wouldn't be fair to castigate the person who had fulfilled an explicit or implicit bargain
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Lol it depends for me ill simply cut them off or tell them what I'm thinking
You dump them sweetheart you don't them you don't get used
Id be truthful with them, and it might hurt, but it would need to be said.
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I just cut them off.
I don't deal with people like that.
Get away from them lmao
Set firm boundaries and stick to them
Leave?
Dump them
lol @Degenerate
Get rid.
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