Is it ok if I don’t want to do anything my birthday and just celebrate my sister only?

[Anonymous]

So, I have a twin sister and she’s so kind and I love her a lot! we are turning 17.
Our bday is coming up soon and I’m really glad that we can celebrate it together!

I don’t know if I’m being over dramatic or selfish by not wanting to celebrate me and only wanting to celebrate my sister on her birthday which is what I personally want to do.

I want to do something big for my sister to celebrate her as I love her endlessly!

We are celebrating her and she’s having a party with friends over. But I just want to refer as her birthday because when ever I do refer it to her birthday and not mine, people correct me. I want to make my sisters birthday this year the best and try to make her happy on her birthday. :)

Last question if I may ask, if you were a twin would you celebrate your twin and you? Or just your twin? I want to know what you think!
Thank you in advance for reading.

[Chill_Thoughts]

It's so nice of you for wanting to focus on her and her only. But of course people will not accept that fully. Because after all it is your birthday too, you can't just hide it.
Don't let that bring you down, let them give you happy birthdays, let them call it your party, just do your best to do what you want to do. You can't make them not celebrate you too, but you can focus all your attention into celebrating your sis if that's what you want to do.
Happy bday in advance!

[Asker]

Thank you! Happy belated or happy birthday in advance to you as well! When your birthday comes, I hope it’s goes really well;)

[Chill_Thoughts]

A whileee away but ty cutie :3

[Mynameisbobby]

It's your birthday and if that's how you choose to celebrate it that's awesome! Happy Birthday to both of you!!

[Asker]

Thank you! I hope you have a great day

[Mynameisbobby]

Thanks 😊 How was your Birthday?

[Asker]

It was really good, thank you! I had my first shot ever…. It’s pretty bad but I wanted to try it and stopped my self from going too far

[slatyb]

Absolutely. It's your day.

[In_Trance]

sure