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Am I wrong for not changing outfit and not thanking them on my birthday?

Well today is my birthday and my family threw a party to me and I didn't wear a beautiful dress and my sister was like forcing me to wear a beautiful dress for me to take a pic and I refused cuz I dont want to then my uncle who gave me a cake or something said he shouldn't have threw a birthday party for me because its useless Like they threw a small family party but I dont want to take a pic to upload it on facebook so they got mad cuz it useless for them to threw me a small party And I ate a small fried chicken and my sister got mad cuz I already ate the chicken without taking pic of it (the food) first and she commented what kind of girl are you? You already eat the chicken!!! I was mad cuz I never forced them to give me gifts or threw me a party so I left And then they all told me that my behavior sucks I told them I never asked them any gifts or to throw me a party so why would they be mad? It they dont like my action then they shouldn't do it the first place Like my sister told me Im the saddest birthday girl she has ever seen Not happy like they want me to sing happy birthday and blow my cake and be thankful For them for what they did now Im guilty cuz they all spent money for throwing small party for me. So am I wrong for behaving that way?
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And then they said next time we won't be throwing a party for you anymore
Am I wrong for not changing outfit and not thanking them on my birthday?
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