The older I've got, to me its just another day tbh. The ones dear to me, i know who they are and I cherish that. I'm human, normally im good at remembering but one does forget sometimes, it just shouldn't be looked at and treated like a criminal offence, thats all.
Not sayin it is but there people out there who see it dat way.I do feel itz important to make people feel extra special on their bday because it is special.I mean what day could be important of an anniversary than the day they came into this world.Without this day no other day would be possible.
Also no1 should be obligated to do anything ir made to feel dat way
You make a very valid point. Luckily, i didn't forget anyone's bday. This thought came to mind when my mate forgot his sister's bday so i was like might as well post this question. Thanks for your enlightening input. Much appreciated.
Np. Just how i feel bout it.
Your feelings are valid and make complete sense. The way you described it, kind of makes me glad I went the extra mile for my girlfriend's bday back in July 😂
It really is just another day and kind of loses value as you get older, or for me at least. On my bday i don't really even keep track of who wished me or not. I know the people close to me will be there for me and there's more to life than remembering bdays.
Just because you don’t find it that important doesn’t mean other people think the same way.
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Makes them Feel bad. Not Makes feel. As if...
Known them for years, do you really have to know them for years to just wish them happy bday lol🤷♂️🎃
@Aakash_Hangargi I said it’s #FORGIVABLE - not OK lol - if you forget, as long as you make it up to them when you remember.. Unless you’ve known them for years... hard to accept.😌
Lol that's what I am saying still the point remains same why would it be forgivable if the other is hard to accept lol 😆
@Aakash_Hangargi Bc it hasn’t been ingrained yet. If it’s Jew it’s not an automatic memory.
It doesn't take years to remember someone's bday if yoh wanted to lol, there are technologies available now that do it for you if you really want to 🤷♂️, it's fine anyways people can still forget it has nothing to do with years is just what I am saying.. And both are equal new or old and that's just unacceptable to say I wished one person bc I know him from long you come next year I will wish you too😆🎃😅
@Aakash_HangargiI think after years people will get more offended is all I meant 😊
Actually by years they will just stop caring 😝 bc they stop expecting from you 🤔
Not a huge deal but people just make a huge deal out of it. We're human, we can forget things.
Some people make a huge deal out of things like that, but not all, as evidenced by my wife and myself.We are human and can forget things. Whoever it is, they'll get over it, sooner or later.
If i remember i wish them. A human can forget sometimes. I just feel one can understand rather than make a big deal out of it if they forget.
yes yiu are right. My parents never remember my birthday, bc they forget, and it doesn't help when its just the next day to Christmas day... Christmas eve its my birthday.
Well said mate.
Im not 25 yet but i agree with you. It really is just another day. Its not like just because its your bday, nothing will go wrong that day.
True but even if you genuinely forgot its still considered somewhat rude and thats kind of beyond my understanding
nah i dont think its rude if a person genuinly forgets
It is. If i remember, I'll just wish them but there are only so many bdays I can remember. I'm human, i can forget.
Very true. One has to understand that even the dearest people can forget and they don't have any bad intentions.