Why is it when I express myself or say something I feel needs to be said they end up saying some hurtful stuff to me and I never hear from em again?

[Anonymous]

That’s why I became emotionally unavailable

For ex. I told a pair of friends that they were fake and I thought they were my good friends”

She said I was wack, dumb ugly insecure etc

another person said “ nobody wants to be around you because you’re so slow”

like I never say anything rude or disrespectful so I don’t understand why it’s so easy for them