Why don't I want kids and see them as a massive chore?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

You view them as an accessory and not something you put pride into. Unfortunately, this is very common due to social media.

People just have kids to take cute pictures and pretend they have the perfect life. A lot of people view kids as an accessory to gain external validation.

Kids should be about building something great and pushing it down the road. It's a sacrifice you make. You work hard for decades to fund your grandkid's education and give them a better life.

I am happy you dont want kids because many people are miserable. Their parents only think about themselves and not their kids.

I am glad you didn't choose to put someone who never asked to be born through so much pain and suffering as so many parents do.

[Midgetmcwidget]

You sound like you are or would be a great parent

[Brittanyroseee]

Exactly kids should only be born to people who STRONGLY desire them.

[Brittanyroseee]

They require sacrifice and selflessness

[Brittanyroseee]

Im not willing to do that so I decided I won’t have them and it’s funny how when i say this, some people call me selfish. It would be more selfish of me to bring an UNWANTED child into this world who will end up being a burden on me…

[Brittanyroseee]

It’s like people would rather have other people bring unwanted kids into this world. Either your selfish for having them or your selfish for not having them.

[Berethor]

Feminism brainwash, not wanting kids is unfeminine, also it bad for your family's future.

[Asker]

Who cares

[Berethor]

Yea it also selfish, and if you really don't care then why you asking that question girl? :)

[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t want kids either and if i did, i would be miserable. I prefer my freedom, money, career, and privacy over children. I also prefer animals wayyyy more.

[Brittanyroseee]

@berethor who cares bro. It’s my life. Im not going to waste my life being unhappy. Kids require tons of sacrifice and they require selflessness. I can’t and will not offer that.

[Berethor]

@Brittanyroseee women who don't want kids ruin society, also not a wife material.

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[Brittanyroseee]

@berethor um, not all men want kids either🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 and would you rather women who don’t like kids, to have them just to end up neglecting them? Cuz that is what happens…

[Brittanyroseee]

@berethor I literally have no motherly instinct towards babies or kids….. I don’t find them cute or interesting. I find them messy annoying and needy and expensive

[Brittanyroseee]

@berethor if i have a child, I wouldn’t care for it as much. Trust me. I would love my pets more🤣 so better I don’t have kids cuz i won’t care about them. Trust me I won’t. I don’t even pay attention to my friends kids

[Brittanyroseee]

@berethor it’s 2023, people can choose how they want to live their life. I don’t care about society standards. Im here for a good time, not to fit into society standards. Im not gonna put myself into a situation I cannot get out of. The child will end up being a burden on me. Im not having kids and i will find a man who is completely fine with that. Not all men want kids either lol.

[Brittanyroseee]

@berethor i look at infants and toddlers and I don’t think their adorable or cute. I think they are demons lol. Cats and dogs are much more cute lol.

[Brittanyroseee]

A child requires sacrifice and selflessness. I cannot offer that and will not offer that🤣I don’t care about babies or kids. Honestly lol

[Brittanyroseee]

I believe in order for someone to be a parent, they must have a strong desire and a huge passion for kids. That is the opposite of me… i never have even felt baby fever 💀

[Brittanyroseee]

Child free for me!!!

[Brittanyroseee]

I can do whatever the fuck i want, whenever the fuck i want. I can spend my money how i want. I can leave my house whenever i want without finding a babysitter and paying for that. Im free to do whatever i want without being tied down to a huge responsibility which I would end up regretting lol

[Brittanyroseee]

I do not want to be stuck with a child 24/7 every single day for 18 years. A child also costs on average 300k up until they are 18. So you are spending about 17k every month on the child. Yeaaah no🤣🤣🤣🤣my money is more important and valuable. Im not wasting it on something I personally don’t see important

[Brittanyroseee]

I want pets, not kids lol. Idc about society either. This new generation of kids is getting wack. Not trying to have a child and it tells me “im non binary and you can call me they/them/it” 💀💀💀💀💀 or it ends up shooting a school up. No thanks!

[Berethor]

@Brittanyroseee how much you write about it at once, it's insane, I guess you got very triggered even though you laughing, you also repeat the same things over and over, you sounds more confused than other "child free" women I argued with. Yea not all men want kids, but men who don't want to commit to kids usually don't want to commit to a woman either, also a man can change his mind about kids at any point of his life, while you remain alone if you didn't had kids while you still can. You love cats so much, it reminds me the crazy cat lady trope, you really want to leave the rest of your life like that? so what that it 2023? biology remind the same, having kids is the main purpose in life, without kids you don't have legacy, there is no anything better to spend money on. How you sure sure that you lack a maternal instinct? maybe after giving birth it would awaken, why you think that you neglecte your kids? if you have a child, you wouldn’t care for it as much? I don't think so. A child requires sacrifice and selflessness, that's true, you cannot offer that? I am not so sure, you are better than you think you are trope, and did you take a jab at non-binary stuff? are you conservative? if so then more of a reason for you to raise kids.

[Brittanyroseee]

Im not triggered lol. I just HATE people like you, who call it “selfish” if a woman doesn’t want a child. What is the big deal? The world is overpopulated as it is. I don’t care to “contribute” to society. I care about making myself happy. It is also very interesting how you say a man who doesn’t want kids won’t commit to a woman… well sir, my brother and sister in law, DESPISE children and they are MARRIED and have pets instead. My coworker, is married. Her and her husband also don’t want kids. You cannot sit here and say that men who don’t want kids will not commit to a woman🤣 there are tons of married couples who decided they don’t want a family of children. Yes im conservative but that doesn’t mean i must have kids. What am i? A breeder cow? Is this how you view women? To be breeders?…. That is sick. I know for a fact I don’t have a motherly instinct because i could care less about infants, toddlers and small children… like i said, i have friends who have kids and I literally do not pay attention to their child. I never even held a baby in my life or ever even felt “baby fever”. As a kid growing up, i hated other kids and despised infant babies. I didn’t even play with dolls or baby dolls either as a child. I have more of an interest and motherly instinct when it comes to animals.

[Brittanyroseee]

There are women out there who have kids and abused them, and neglected them. So you cannot sit there and tell me that my motherly instinct will kick in after birth. I suggest you google “bridgette bardot” and read about her. She was forced into pregnancy and giving birth and after she gave birth, she left her husband and never spoke to the child. No contact. She wanted nothing to do with the kid. She admitted it herself on her documentary book that she wrote. Not all women have a maternal instinct….

[Brittanyroseee]

Sir, I honestly don’t care about living my life alone.. the max i will do is get married. Im not trying to have a child with someone and the man leaves me and im stuck with the offspring. The child will become a huge burden on me especially if he decides he wants nothing to do with it and men do this a lot just like women 🤣 im not risking that. You say i have nothing else better to spend my money on. Are you sure? My rent, my car insurance, my bills, my groceries, my expenses are certainly more important and already expensive as it is. A child is costly. I also like to spend my money on myself. I want to buy nice things for myself, some pets, nice vacations. I just went to paris last month. Can i do that with a baby? No. You lose your money and freedom once a child is involved. All your money goes towards the kid. I apologize but I don’t find kids necessary or important for me to have…

[Brittanyroseee]

A child does require sacrifice and selflessness and it is a huge responsibility in which i choose to not do. Sorry! Have a good day!

[Brittanyroseee]

Even if i got married, and got pregnant i would have an abortion lol. Just saying.

[Berethor]

@Brittanyroseee it's mostly overpopulated in Africa, they the ones who should have less kids, not me or you, in the west there is too few kids, demography is about balance. Breeder cow? woman that had kids is a woman should is a breeder cow to you? well whatever. So we agree that a child does require sacrifice and selflessness, yet you don't like when women called selfless for not wanting to have raise kids? even if you got married, and got pregnant you would have an abortion? killing babies, what a great person you are. :)

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[Berethor]

A woman that had kids as a woman should, and don't like when women called selfish.

[Brittanyroseee]

Yes i would have an abortion cuz I don’t want kids. Why is it such a big deal to you? Not everyone wants them and not everyone must have them..

[Brittanyroseee]

Would you prefer me to have kids and i am miserable and the child is a burden on me? Or would you rather have me enjoy my life?

[Brittanyroseee]

Yes a child requires sacrifice and selflessness. I don’t want to offer that. I can choose how i spend the rest of my life and i choose to not waste it on raising kids. I don’t have a maternal instinct. Not all women do. Please google bridgette bardot.

[Brittanyroseee]

I also prefer to not put my body through pregnancy and giving birth. All that pain isn’t worth it for a child, at least for me. I just don’t think it is necessary or important for me to have kids. I care more about myself and my own happiness vs society standards

[Berethor]

Good Girls avoid abortion, yea I would prefer you to have kids and contribute to society.

[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t give a flying fuck about “contributing to society” im not gonna make my life miserable or make the childs life miserable cuz i never even wanted it. What is your issue? Fucking wierdo

[Brittanyroseee]

I literally would have no emotional connection to the fetus so yeah i would abort it lol. I wouldn’t care for it…

[Brittanyroseee]

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[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t want kids. Im not gonna have them. End of the story lol. You prefer women to have kids they don’t want and won’t love just to end up abandoning them? Tons of women have kids and they neglect or get rid of them… again google Bridgette bardot. She never wanted her son.. she left as soon as he was born

[Brittanyroseee]

A kid would be a burden on me. Again i have no maternal instincts. I know this for a damn fact! I don’t even find infants “cute”. I literally avoid my friends kids and pay attention to their fucking dog bro

[Berethor]

Bridgette Bardot is insane, but her looks was gone to waste if she didn't had a kid.

[Brittanyroseee]

Insane because she didn’t want kids?🤣 so you prefer for women to have kids they don’t want?

[Brittanyroseee]

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[Brittanyroseee]

Im gonna live my life the way i want to. Not how society wants women to.

[Berethor]

You choosing selfish path. I prefer for women to fulfill their purpose, and become a mom.

[Brittanyroseee]

And you are a mysoginist and you are not even attractive enough for a woman to have a child with so get off that high horse buddy

[Brittanyroseee]

Im choosing the path that will make ME happy. I will be miserable with a child. I don’t have a maternal instinct. I don’t even care for kids bro. I like animals way more! I don't know what the fuck you are not understanding but im actually being the opposite of selfish. Im not gonna bring an unwanted child into this world which I won’t love. I would be a terrible parent because a kid requires sacrifice and it’s a huge responsibility.

[Brittanyroseee]

Its 2023. It’s not the midevil ages bud.

[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t care about kids. They don’t interest me enough for me to have them. I don’t find them cute either. I value my money and freedom and privacy more than a child. Good bye

[Berethor]

Again with the 2023 thing, you going against nature by not wanting to be a mom. If you raise your child with love then he not likely to turn a serial killer, it's totally worth to bet on child.

[Brittanyroseee]

Completely untrue. There are kids raised with love and turned out to be killers or mass shooters. You are wrong. I watch tons of true crime

[Brittanyroseee]

Going against nature? I don’t want to be a mom. What are you not getting?

[Brittanyroseee]

I literally have no maternal instinct. I DONT CARE ABOUT KIDS!!! ITS MORE SELFISH OF ME TO BRING A CHILD INTO THIS WORLD IN WHICH I DONT WANT AND won't GIVE ONE FUCK ABOUT

[Brittanyroseee]

People should only have kids if they strongly desire them. I could care less bro. Im not having them and its a free fucking world! GOOD BYE

[Berethor]

Yea going against nature, you should be a mom, and your body is made for that.

[Brittanyroseee]

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[Brittanyroseee]

Nope! Im not bringing a child into this world in which it will be viewed as unwanted and a burden.

[Brittanyroseee]

“Your body is made for that” ok so you see me as a breeder cow that should pop out babies that I don’t even want?

[Brittanyroseee]

I literally would have an abortion if i ever got pregnant. That is how much I don’t want kids. Didn’t I already say I don’t care about kids enough to have them? Only people who have a strong desire and passion for kids, should have them.

[Brittanyroseee]

Sir i would love my dog or cat more than my own child lol.

[Berethor]

Loving a dog or cat more than your child sound insane, you having a feminist mindset.

[Brittanyroseee]

No its not insane it’s just the truth. I repeated 100 times to you that I don’t have a maternal instinct. Therefore I don’t care much about kids… I literally feel bad more for animals than human beings bro. It’s just the truth. I don’t even like human beings.

[Brittanyroseee]

People who don’t have a maternal instinct and who don’t care much about kids, should not have them. Im one of those people. I would view a child as a chore, not as something i desire and love. Clearly you don’t understand this and you are stuck in your mysoginistic way. Im ending this. Im not having kids, end of the story. Like i said, i would have an abortion if i ever got pregnant.

[Brittanyroseee]

Im not trying to have a kid with someone and they leave me and im stuck struggling with the kid as a single mom. The kid would become a huge burden and regret on me.

[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t want to be a mom. Sorry this bothers you but its a free world. Bye

[Berethor]

@Brittanyroseee as I said, you sound confused, fear to be single mom, but yea bye.

[Brittanyroseee]

Its my choice if i want to have kids, it is not your decision

[Brittanyroseee]

No im not confused i just know what i want and im not gonna put myself into a situation I can’t get out of.

[Brittanyroseee]

Why would i want to risk being a single struggling mom who will view her child as a burden?… why make my life hard and miserable lol

[Brittanyroseee]

People only should have kids if they strongly desire them and have a huge passion for them. Once again, I don’t care much for them…

[Brittanyroseee]

I literally would have an abortion if i got pregnant. That means I strongly don’t want them, even if i got married. I still wouldn’t want them.

[Berethor]

@Brittanyroseee why marry if he gonna leave you as single mom? and abortion is bad.

[Brittanyroseee]

If i get married to someone and NO kids, and he leaves me, i can easily move on. Done. If a kid is involved? It will be hard for me to move on from Him and then the child will become a burden on me. Does this make sense? Good, hope it does! Marriage without kids, if he cheats on me, having an affair, is abusive or leaves me, i can move on easily. With a kid? It will become a burden and i will regret the child. No, I disagree. Abortion is not bad. There are already 400k kids in foster care. Lets not add more unwanted children to foster care

[Brittanyroseee]

I choose to not have kids and this is not your business and not your decision. It is better I don’t bring an unwanted child into this world. People should only have kids if they strongly desire them and are willing to sacrifice their life for them. I don’t 😑 sorry. Good night

[Berethor]

Easy to leave without children, but it goes both ways, children are creating a true bond.

[Brittanyroseee]

Right it is much easier to move on if the other person leaves. Again, with a child, it will become a burden.

[Brittanyroseee]

Again, I don’t care about kids. People should only have kids if they strongly desire them and have passion for them. Bud, i have been this way since i was a teenager. It won’t change lol. No matter what you say🤣my mindset is made. I know what i want in life. Im not gonna make a huge decision i will end up regretting that I can’t get myself out of.

[Brittanyroseee]

I would have more of a bond with an animal, over a child. That is just how it is for me. I don’t care about babies or kids. I care about animals🤣sorry!

[Berethor]

Not easy to find new relationship as you get old, so it not a good thing, good night to you.

[Brittanyroseee]

Im not looking for a relationship buddy. If it happens, it happens. Im 24 years old. Im not old lol. People get married in their 30s bro…

[Brittanyroseee]

A relationship doesn’t need to include kids. I know tons of married couples who decided they never want children

[Brittanyroseee]

Get off that high fucking horse. You are not even close to being attractive to be telling me all this stuff. Your not attractive enough to have a child with someone lol.

[Brittanyroseee]

I will say this for the last time
Women should not have kids unless they strongly desire them and have a huge passion for them. Me? I don’t care much for kids. Women should only have children if they are willing to make sacrifices. Am i? No im not. Therefore it is best I don’t have them:) good night!

[Berethor]

A relationship without kids is pointless, why marry woman who don't want kids? good night.

[Brittanyroseee]

Maybe ask my brother that. He is married and him and his wife decided they never want kids🤣 my coworker and her husband also decided they never want kids. Not all married men want kids bro. Get out of that fucking mindset it’s weird!

[Brittanyroseee]

You are seriously fucking retarted honestly

[Brittanyroseee]

Kids are pointless to me🤣

[Brittanyroseee]

Unnecessary

[Brittanyroseee]

Not important to me

[Berethor]

You insane, kids are the main purpose of life, and women are made to be moms.

[Brittanyroseee]

Kids are NOT the main purpose of life. You are insane for viewing women as breeder cows!

[Brittanyroseee]

No, its 2023. Things have changed and now we have the choice to be a mom or not

[Brittanyroseee]

Your an ugly ass mysoginist. No woman will let you get her pregnant. Look at you💀 your looks match your shitty trashy ass andrew tate personality. Gross as fuck

[Brittanyroseee]

My brother and his wife literally decided they don’t want kids… not all married men want them

[Brittanyroseee]

Let me go ahead and birth a child just to end up not loving it and i end up putting it up for adoption because its not something i wanted lol

[Brittanyroseee]

Kids should only be born to people who are DYING to have them. I could care fucking less bro. Good fucking bye andrew tate

[Berethor]

Put it up for adoption at least it better than abortion, good bye crazy cat lady.

[Brittanyroseee]

Nah, don’t tell me what to do with my body. I’d abort it, cuz I wouldn’t care about it or feel any emotional ties towards jt

[Brittanyroseee]

Crazy cat lady? I have dogs too🤣

[Brittanyroseee]

Being an animal owner is better than being an exhausted stressed out parent that spends her days changing diapers sitting at home 24/7 with no money to spend but on the kid💀💀💀💀💀

[Brittanyroseee]

Animals are better than a screaming child that throws tantrums in public, shits in their own pants and yells at you for not buying what they want

[Berethor]

There is no better thing spend money on, be glad that your parents didn't thought the same.

[Brittanyroseee]

My parents put me up for adoption 💀💀💀💀💀💀 LOL

[Brittanyroseee]

Yeah there is better things to Spend my money on🤣 maybe for you, a child is worth all the money you make and it’s worth sacrificing your life, but to me it’s not. We will agree to disagree. We clearly want different things in life. Im not gonna convince you of anything and you certainly won't convince me of your opinion

[Brittanyroseee]

Vacations, gifts for myself, my pets, my bills, my rent, my groceries, my expenses, are more important than a damn fucking child

[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t want kids. I don’t really like them especially infants. I don’t have an interest in them. I don’t care about them enough to have them. End of the story

[Brittanyroseee]

I’d rather spend my hard earned money on a nice designer bag for myself, or to go on a nice vacation. Not on a kid💀 ew

[Brittanyroseee]

To me, kids are a job that im not getting paid for. Im not gonna have them. Waste of money and time.

[Brittanyroseee]

Clearly you won’t agree so im done. It’s a free world and i will live how i want to, not by some mysoginist standards

[Berethor]

They don't stay infants forever, you would love them when they grow up.

[Brittanyroseee]

I would never love them. I don’t like infants, toddlers, or kids. I also hate this generation of teenagers.

[Brittanyroseee]

Stop trying to push me to do something i will not do. I would love my dog more than my own child, sorry.

[Brittanyroseee]

Again, to me kids are unnecessary and a waste of money. Kids should only be born to people who actually desire to have them. I could care fuckin less. I don't know how many times i have to repeat myself but I don’t give a shit about children

[Brittanyroseee]

You are clearly stuck in your mysoginistic ways. Bye

[Brittanyroseee]

If i won’t love the kid as an infant, I won’t love it EVER. Bye dude

[Brittanyroseee]

I made my point clear!!! Finally!

[Berethor]

Don't means that I agree, nature don't care if you don't want kids as long as you have them.

[Brittanyroseee]

You don’t have to agree. Im not gonna have them. Idc about society or “nature”. The world will be fine if i don’t have kids.

[Brittanyroseee]

Urging people to have kids who don’t want them, is going to bring unwanted, unloved children in this world who will end up being abandoned or neglected. Kids should only be born to people who desire to have them and who are compassionate about children. I could care less buddy. I prefer animals more. Pets for me!

[Berethor]

The world will not be fine if there is too many girls like yourself, that don't contribute.

[Brittanyroseee]

There are 8 billion people on this planet. We have enough humans on this earth. No wonder covid happened!!!

[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t need to contribute lol. It’s 2023. Imma do what the fuck i want to do

[Brittanyroseee]

You shouldn’t even be talking. Look at yourself. Your ugly. Your not one bit attractive. So get off that high horse buddy. No female will allow you to get her pregnant, especially with that mysoginist personality you have.

[JosyJosy]

If it's something you really want to do, you wouldn't see it as a chore.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Raising children with your knowledge doesn’t excite you? Feeding them high quality nutrition, developing good habits, making good humans.

[Brittanyroseee]

No it sounds horrible lol

[Brittanyroseee]

You can raise a child with love and it could still turn out to be a serial killer or mass shooter

[_Just_A_girl_]

Do u have niece neph or siblings?