Nah man, I get where you're comin from. Feeling responsible for another person's happiness ain't nothin to take lightly.
But at the same time, don't sell yourself short, ya know? A woman worth havin would want a family WITH you, not just for you alone. She ain't gotta give up her whole self to be with someone.
Most girls I know still aim high career-wise and all that jazz even with kids. You can support each other's dreams and make it work as a team.
As long as you're an equal partner carryin your weight, ain't nothin wrong with startin a fam. Find someone ambitious like you, share the load - no reason she has to do it alone or feel trapped.
Plus kids are freakin awesome man! Sure it's work but seeing their little smiling faces makes up for it times ten. A good woman would feel the same way I bet.
Don't call it quits yet homie. When you find the right one it'll click - you'll WANT that happy life together, stress free. Just focus on bein the best dude you can be for now. It'll happen!
thoughts aren't strange. they are meaningful to you. however, you should trust that a woman can decide for herself. if you help her as a husband, you will both bear the burden.
You obvisouly don't understand the value of family. Familiy is the most important thig in the world.
Do you think women don't get anything out of having a family?
Do you think family only respesents 10% of women's hopes, dreams and aspirations?
Do you think the only reason we have a family is to pass on your bloodline?
Pull your head out, dude.
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Women have agency. Many would like to have children with a responsible partner. That doesn't mean giving up everything else in life.
Not the right way to look at it. Find a woman who wants kids as well.
Yeah, that's strange. You probably should just remain single. Let your bloodline end here dude.😆
She has a bloodline too.
You're a woman posing as a man.
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