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He wanted me to go out with his family, but I didn't feel comfortable, help?

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So I am dating a guy. We have been on and off but we took time apart and came back together and things are going nicely now.

Last year, I met his whole family. (He made me meet his parents, siblings, cousins, grandparents, nieces, uncles and aunts). ALL in one night (new years eve). They all said they like me but then things got rocky with him and I never saw them again.

He never ever wanted to meet my family which broke my heart because I begging him. My family, to this day, has still never met him after knowing him for a year. I don't think its fair. I wouldn't throw him into it all like he did to me. Just my parents and maybe my siblings (they are never around so I don't know).

So tonight, he was going to hang out with his cousins to drink at their home. He invited me. But I didn't feel very comfortable doing that. 1- I am a light weight and they all drink really potent stuff. I can't keep up. 2- He has probably told them things that went wrong between he and I, and I don't know if they even like me? I met them once. 3- I just wouldn't feel comfortable going to their house in general because I barely know them. 4- I just want him to meet my family too, and it makes me feel bad that he won't meet them.

Is it wrong I didn't go tonight? I wanted to see him so badly, but he had these plans beforehand so I didn't wanna bother him. Maybe he likes time away from me? It's good to have time apart too.

He said we can see each other in the afternoon tomorrow. Should I bring up the idea of him meeting my family? Or nah? I'm open to getting to know his family more, but maybe not with alcohol? He knows I'm a lightweight too. Help?
He wanted me to go out with his family, but I didn't feel comfortable, help?
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