I'm 21 and a virgin, I've had opportunities but turned them down as to me I want to only ever truly be with one girl, I admit I got high standards on a girls body and mind but the thing is I only need one and I only want one.
If God came down and said 'Jacob tomorrow you'll meet a very beautiful looking girl who's got a heart of gold and she's the only one you'll ever be with for the rest of your days' I would be more than happy.
I've been offered casual sex I turned down, I've been offered sex while talking to a girl and turned it down (and some of these girls offering were very attractive too) so it's not like I haven't had the opportunity. Some guys may scoff at that but let them, they can have their immature drunken flings etc
anyway I do worry as in this age I feel like a lot of girls (even those with a good heart and a good head on their shoulders) would find a guy wanting to wait until marriage for sex to be a big issue or just think something is wrong with me.
the reality is I only ever want to truly be with one girl, I am religious and believe in God but that's not all the reasoning, I simply think it's more Romantic to be with one, one I'm attracted to for her body and her mind and then commit to her, build a family one day, watch the family grow up and then grow old with her. Maybe that makes me a hopeless romantic but hey I'm not ashamed of that, actually I'm proud of that.
girls would a guy like me be an issue for you?
- I would be happy to wait until marriage for sex74% (17)
- I would be willing to wait until marriage for sex but it wouldn't be my preference13% (3)
- I would not wait until marriage for sex13% (3)
Guys can not vote on this poll
That's another question of mine (shameless self promotion I guess 😂) anyway please keep replying and given takes on why or why not you would wait for sex etc, not saying you're a bad person if you don't (if you're a fling type person that's not a stretch though) but for me I want to wait until marriage.
Most Helpful Girl
well I'm waiting for the one too, so I don't see any issue there. It's sad that people now a days lose their virginity to strangers in a club, because for me it has a deep meaning, so losing my virginity has to be special, so waiting to meet a boy who I'll see myself with the rest of my life is my option.2