I hate being a Virgin?

[sadgirl2002]

A lot of guys & even girls call me really pretty & beautiful, but no guy wants to date me. They'll talk to me but once they find out I'm not experienced and I haven't kissed a guy before (I'm 18, turning 19 in December), they all say "aweee that's so sweet" then they start slowly cutting me off. I want a boyfriend but every guy I talk to ends up treating me like I'm their baby sister. I'm starting to feel really bad about being a Virgin, I feel like it's completely sabotaging my dating life! :(

[btbc92]

you saying you hate being a virgin as you saying you hate yourself. I can easily tell you what the problem is because I always been through the same thing and you're not the last person.

1. you need to stop advertising your business about being a virgin and never been in a relationship. nobody needs to know that except for the person that is interested in you, supposedly if it isn't already about lust.

2. this really all depends on the type of guys you are communicating with. if it's just random guys you speak to you got to understand something. if they're not interested in you like that they're going to mind their own business. now if you're talking to guys that claim they interested in you and they already try to ask you out then did that, they already mocking you because they just don't respect you. not just because your virgin.

3. but I don't see why you have to be so upset over people who at least respect the fact that your a virgin. but again I don't believe it has anything to do with the status of your virginity. this may have to do with the fact that you are just not interesting enough to attract guys at all. and this may have to do with either your personality or from what I'm seeing your character.

allow me to put it this way for a person who always had to deal with your situation. this has to do with your attitude. it's very clear you're desperate for a boyfriend but why? what is your intentions of wanting to get into a relationship? relationships is serious business. it's not about fun and games. and people have different intentions for getting into one. you don't do it because other people your age are. and a lot of them are in it for wrong reasons. the emotions hormones and feelings are fleeting. many have no idea what they're doing but think they do. and it sounds like to me your desperation is what's deterring away from you. and if it is you being a virgin, then that is another story itself for many reasons. and 9 out of 10 times it's because they don't want to deal with the process of supposedly breaking your virginity and trying to teach you the way how they experience having sex.

[sadgirl2002]

It's not my personality, all the guys I talk to, I end up making them laugh and they always say I'm awesome to talk to. But when I tell them that, because they ask me, they're like "awe that's so sweet" then they start straying away from me. It's annoying

[btbc92]

Everybody's persobality is nof always compatible because everyone is different and needs different things. They may like you overall as a person. But it doesn't mean you are the type of person they need or want.

[btbc92]

personality is not*

[i1T2daty]

Well I'd certainly be interested in changing that situation. I do have a few ideas that I've repeated on her publicly & gotten a lot of shit for them but I'm still willing to try since I think it's the single best way to get beyond that. I only want to answer if you are willing to allow me to answer you privately. Good lucjk with it and if you are interest , I have some previously posted responses to the same type of situation. Or, as I said, I'm happy to discuss privately

[YoyoyoHomie]

Your worth is not compared to how much sexual action you've gotten. You're a beautiful human being and you shouldn't compare yourself to another.
Just be better then you were yesterday and keep improving.
You're young, and you're a female, you'll have a lot of fun very soon. Trust me having boobs gets you VIP access to a lot of things.

[rishuu72]

I honestly think you're over reacting. May be u have attained the age of 18, but you are not mature inuf in this. That's y they feel annoyed with u.
I personally don't have any issues with a girl whether she is virgin or not, bt ya she should have a quality of mature thinking

[Woodlandgnome]

Any man who passes you over simply because you're a virgin is not worth your time or consideration. There will be someone who will come along and like you for YOU, not for your sexual experience, or lack thereof.

[serious]

Well, I have always been a virgin, I am still a virgin and I want to be a virgin till death and I don't hate myself for this, in fact I am proud of it.

There is nothing to hate about being a virgin. I hope you are ok.

[jojimiller]

that's one of the greatest things you could admit. to be honest, you're a gem among society today. most girls aren't virgins by your age, so it's definitely not a thing to be ashamed of.

[advaj98]

actually that should draw guys in not push them away

[sadgirl2002]

That's what I was thinking! But I guess not! :(

[advaj98]

It'd draw me in anyway

[nbbn5]

I am turning 18 in few months and i never had a girlfriend never kissed a girl and of course a virgin at least people think that you are pretty be happy abut it

[manmit]

u should be happy for this. try to become love of a guy not his lust.

[AtomicCookies87]

Times are changing and so are people's values. Guys want girls with experience because they aren't experienced enough themselves to take the lead. You'll find someone who likes you enough to not care.

[cswisher88]

he'll I'll date you lol jk I'd have to know your personality first lol but I don't think that's entirely it maybe they get bored or just want sexual and you come off as wanting more then just to fuck which is good thing

[zagor]

I don't feel like you're telling the whole story - no one gets cut off because they're a virgin.

Come to the states and we'll take care of that...

[sadgirl2002]

I've been talking to plenty of guys and they tell me "you're too young, we want different things. But I like your personality a lot, you're an awesome girl". I thought just having a good personality was the base for a relationship but I guess not...

[zagor]

If you're at least 18 I don't think many 70 year olds would say you're too young...

[Pomegranate139]

Don't tell them you are a virgin. Hide it for as long as you can and fake like you know and have experience

[Intraluminal]

There are guys who want to date virgins. You just haven't met them yet.

[kidyellow]

Find a guy who's a virgin as well. But I honestly think you're over thinking. I personally don't have any issues with a virgin girl.

[CHRIS11796]

Do you really want a boyfriend, or just someone to lose your virginty to?

[sadgirl2002]

I have no clue, I think a boyfriend

[UmerKhan]

I think you hate yourself too... which isn't good for you. You should save your virginity for your future husband!!!

[Lithium65]

if you have a issue when you bring it up... don't bring it up

[quastra]

There's plenty of guys who prefer virgin women. I'm one of them and not really that experienced myself. You just got to find them.

[lordSHM]

well if u want a boyfriend

[MeGo99]

I'm 19 and still virgin too
it's normal

[vinayjain]

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