I'm sick of being a virgin. I can't take it anymore. Why do I have to suffer like this?

[Anonymous]

I'm soon in a matter of weeks turning 22 and still a virgin. Loosing it is 99% impossible because of how things are set up.

I used to think that it was all my fault and that social awkwardness was the root of all of my troubles
But I was dead wrong. The Incel websites have opened my eyes. It's ALL about looks. I'm ugly.. just 6 feet tall. Have jet black hair. Deepset small squint eyes that are negative canthal tilted. A puffy face with smile lines on each cheek. Can't grow a beard properly and am gaining weight rapidly. That's only a small list of defects on my appearance. Not to mention my slightly crooked teeth

I am butt fugly. On top of that i also may have some sort of social anxiety and awkwardness

I don't want to live like this any longer. Everyone is having fun and living their lives but me not! I don't even have friends anymore

Please don't tell me that I'm not missing much. I feel so left out and behind my peers of the same age group. They have accomplished many things but me not. i do not want to associate myself with the Incel movement because nothing is to gain from them anymore for me. At the end of the day I'm still a virgin. Sticking around those toxic brews of hate only makes my mental health deteriorate further.

I'm not a woman/girl hater. I only hate myself for the way i look. I wish i was never born

It's one of my dreams one day to be loved by a girl but it won't ever happen because of this genetic curse that befell me

Not just girls but everything and everyone dislikes me. As i said above i don't have any friends anymore.. I'm sure it's because of my looks...

Why does this have to be so unfair for me..
I want to fix my life and have fun too

Lately i can't concentrate very well. I'm very depressed and am doing bad with my studies and work too...

Suicide may seem like an option but then again I'm too scared to do it.

[TruthBringer]

Sounds like you have little going on in your life for you to literally ruin your life over the fact you haven't stick your dick in some girl or how girls perceive you. I know it's in our DNA to want to be wanted and want to have someone we can share our feelings and be intimate with. But you have to realize that you have to WORK ON YOUR SELF. I was a virgin aswel. That was until I WORKED ON MYSELF. I worked on my body and I worked on my confidence. The black pill does speak some truth, but if you already allow yourself to be an incel, you've already lost.

I know, women are fucking shallow. So why the fuck are you pinning your happiness on them? True happiness is hard to find within ourselves and impossible outside of ourselves. Work on yourself bud. You need to improve your confidence. Gaining muscles and losing fat in the gym is one of the best things a man can do, especially at our age. I never went to the gym for girls. They happened to be a positive by product. I don't see pretty girls as the prize. I see myself as the prize. And that has helped them get drawn to me naturally. I fucking dare you to improve your life. have goals, aspirations. And when you finally stick your dick in a girl, THEN you will hate yourself for allowing yourself over value sex.

[Jamie05rhs]

Damn, son. That is rough.

My best advice is to work out and make money. That's all I have for you, my friend.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[btbc92]

The problem is you and your mindset. Your failing yourself by being a self putting person who doesn't love himself. If your sick of being a virgin, then that means your sick of yourself.

I have been a virgin all my life. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. You should not be worried about what your other friends are doing. You should not be envious and trying to cover it with your friends got going on. Because first of all you don't even know what they have going on. You know that a lot of people are living a fake life begin with? You just going to be wasting your time trying to be like everybody else while you try to do what they do and watch as they go around laughing as I see you suffer. Don't be wasting your time with that silliness. You have no idea what your virginity is, or what sex is.

If they are being important influence and they are hurting your life, then you should remove them as your friends. They're not your friend. Your friend should have respect for you. If their not trying to force you to be like them them. Then don't try to be like them. Their life is their live. Hour life is yours. And life is what you make of it.

[btbc92]

You need a counselor. You need God. You don't need women or sex. You need to get your priorities and life in order.

[Asker]

I'll try to feel better. But I'm very sad rn. I need some sleep

[btbc92]

Look. What you need to understand that the feeling that you have is what everybody have. Everybody at some point I felt that way. But that doesn't mean that it has to affect your life. You got to have a rational and logical reason to be involved with somebody. Because you are trying to invite somebody else in your life. Or should I say You're simply trying to get rid of your virginity for reasons that are not logical. Most people wish they kept their virginity because they made terrible mistake.

[Mystic_Nova]

I'm 22 and still a virgin, by choice tho. It's not a big deal.

[Asker]

Well that's the problem miss
I don't want to remain like this any longer. I want to lose it. I know it sounds a bit weird and immature of me but being unable to lose it makes me feel like a weak person..

[Mystic_Nova]

Plenty of women out there who will help you lose it with the right price love

[Asker]

Like how much...

[Mystic_Nova]

Depends on the girl

[Asker]

Lol I don't think any girl would even look at me let alone make a bargain with me.

[Mystic_Nova]

They dont care what you look like, only that they get laid

[Mystic_Nova]

Paid

[Asker]

And where do i start

[Mystic_Nova]

Go down town and get prostitute

[CreamySeed]

I met my only girlfriend at work it was a grocery store and lots of female employees come through there she eventually dumped me and since I quit there and worked in occupations with no girls it has been a dead end street for 8 years Even with online dating efforts moral of the story you are far from alone in your situation and try working in a job full of females like food service starbucks is a great choice for scouting out females as well as grocery stores. I am almost ready to take a big paycut to do a job like that to get a girlfriend but i know pussy is a dead end street especially if you are giving up making money.

[Brian___1731]

Not all handsome guys get the girls. It's true it plays a role but in the modern world people pick someone who's confident, has charisma, can have good conversations, takes care of their health and mind and help people. Workout, read or learn new skills so you can have more interesting conversations. And stop chasing girls, chase your dreams. Focus on whatever you like the most and don't worry if you're a virgin. It's alright. Maybe you haven't met the right person yet.

[Flower7]

Out of those qualities you listed about yourself, weight would be the easiest one to change. Maybe you should start there. That would help to improve your appearance.

[Asker]

I'm too poor for plastic surgery..

[Flower7]

Dieting and exercise are a lot cheaper.

[tzdc21]

Dude don't throw your life away. And this is not just a you thing, many guys have this issue. In fact it's becoming more common for men under 30 to be virgins or not have sex in a year

[Dinosaursandanime65]

[Dinosaursandanime65]

But don't do suicide. DONT. It REALLY isn't worth it. Patience... just patience. Some compounds are inert, having little to know effect on the outcome.

[Anonymous]

It's a reminder that it's always on the guy to get the girl in bed and almost never the other way around

[Asker]

Yeah but when no one wants to even look at you how am i supposed to get the girl
No one is interested in me.

[Anonymous]

Oh come on now. Its not so bad, you can always go fuck yourself.

[Asker]

That's so mean

[Opinion Owner]

Dude, everyone masterbates... if they say they dont, they are a liar.

[Asker]

The thing is. I'm tired of masturbation.

[Opinion Owner]

Watch nastier porn.

[Asker]

No! I want the real thing

[Opinion Owner]

Pay for it.

[Asker]

It's impossible to do so here where i live

[Opinion Owner]

Then go on vaction or those sheep are gonna start looking real pretty...

[Ranasal_Gansen]

It’s ok dude