How to get over the fears and doubts of you not ever having a future or a family?

[Anonymous]

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I have a job, I could have a career but I can’t find a job in that field. (Personal training ) I’m not that intelligent, I didn’t do well in school. I speak well but I’m not that intellectual. And I don’t have a family. Haven’t been in many relationships but the good potential partners I screwed it up and they left. Makes me feel so low about my future in life

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I’m really 32 years old. My age on the app is wrong

[Effably]

I'd suggest imagining anything you're good at. More likely than not the reason is you gave it time and kept trying. Other things you are not good at? They work the same way. Whether it is playing the guitar, sports, dating or being intelligent.

That simple shift in mindset should be sufficient to see possibility. From there? Simple choice. If it is important to you, work towards it.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t regret not having my own family because I have an easier life than a woman with kids and a husband.

[Asker]

You don’t feel insecure or bad about not having a husband or kids?

[Rainbow_Warming]

Understand that your thoughts and views will keep changing.