He used to beat up his ex's and now he's getting married to my sister?

[Anonymous]

how likely is it that a man will beat up his girlfriend/wife after doing that to almost all his ex's? This guy had a lot of girlfriends where he blackmailed them their nudes, sent them to the girls fathers and brothers and threatened to ruined their lives? The last ex he had actually took him to court for beating her in different occasions and he actually sent her nudes to her father and her brother. She won the court and he had to pay a huge amount of money but didn't go to jail. He did exactly the same to his previous girlfriends, sending their pictures to the girls's families and threaten them if they leave him. He has done that to his sisters and controlled them and beat them up to the point one of his sisters called the police because he broke her thumb because she has shorts and used to blackmail his own sister plus he yells at his mother infront of my sister, when my sister and I came to visit her inlaws, he was not respecting his mother. He got married to my sister now, she is divorced and has a daughter. He yells at her and curse her out when they have a fight and also threatened her publicly on social media when she lived in a secret women shelter but eventually she got back with him and actually they got married. He moved to her place now and I wonder if it's possible he can change or he might beat her and abuse her? I am afraid he will treat her and her daughter the way he treated the women in his life and his sisters.

[Anonymous]

He may already be abusing your sister in one way or another unfortunately, but she’s hiding it and just not telling you. She’s protecting him from criticism and trouble. She doesn’t want you or the family to view him as bad. It’s not hard to hide these things, but definitely unfortunate that she would have someone like him around her daughter. I would talk to her about this if I were you and urge her to leave him, if not for herself than for the sake of protecting her child that fully relies on your sister to keep her safe. If she won’t leave then all you can do is keep encouraging her, remind her she is supported and loved, and that you’ll be there no matter what. This can be more empowering that you know.

[Twalli]

Apparently, he already treated her this way, he has no reason to change.

[driven159]

It will not change so watch out for your sister.

[panamared1]

does she know all this too

[Asker]

nope she doesn't know. My mother wouldn't let me.

[panamared1]

Maybe you should educate her